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Intro
Hey. I have been lurking on this board since December. I'm on mobile so I don't post a lot. But since a new court appearance seems to be where we are headed I guess I'll intro in case I need advice.
I have a SD who is 2.5 EOWE. BM is only 18 and pretty immature about anything if it's not what she wants it doesn't happen. We have a court order but if it's not in the court order she has to fight. SD wasn't even at DH's college graduation because it was the Friday of Mother's Day weekend. Disappointing for us but SD obviously didn't know she missed out on much. Just an example. DH and I are 21 and expecting our first LO in March.
I have a SD who is 2.5 EOWE. BM is only 18 and pretty immature about anything if it's not what she wants it doesn't happen. We have a court order but if it's not in the court order she has to fight. SD wasn't even at DH's college graduation because it was the Friday of Mother's Day weekend. Disappointing for us but SD obviously didn't know she missed out on much. Just an example. DH and I are 21 and expecting our first LO in March.
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Re: Intro
Sooooo, your H was 17-18 ish, and got a 15-16 yr old pregnant, and somehow in the last 3 years met and married you and now you at the mature age of 21 having a baby...expects her to be mature? Especially, since none of the "parents" brains are even finished developing.
I'm sorry I'm really side-eyeing this one just based on the timeline alone.