Success after IF

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I broke down and called my obs office. Mainly I want to know if I should be taking the.baby aspirin the RE told me to take. Since I never started my ivf cycle I figure I am not really their patient. So I call my ob of 5 years. She is out on maternity leave and wont be back until December. The other two docs I don't like. One is fresh out of residency and tried to imduce me at 34 weeks when my protein was barely above the cut off for pre e...it was 300 exactly. I resisted and the mfm doctor agreed with me. The other doc is just a b+++h.

I set up an appointment for 3 weeks away...I even ask when I should come in and they say whenever I want to. What?

Then I talk to the nurse about the baby aspirin issue. I explain the RE I was seeing put me on it in preparation for ivf, but I got pregnant first. I also explain that it has been shown when talen early in pregnsncy to prevent miscarriage in some women with clotting issues and to prevent pre e. I explain I had severe pre e with number 1. I went in to more detail, told her about the various studies I had read etc, but you get the drift. She doesn't have a clue so she says she will ask the doc. I hear here say to the dr, "The IVF told her to take aspirin. Should she stop?" Wow. Not what I told her. Aspirin in its full, adult dose is dangerous In pregnancy. Baby aspirin is not. Further, an ivf Is not a person capable of giving instructions.

She tells me the doc says no and to come in. I say my appointment is not for 3 weeks and ask if I need to come in sooner. She says no. I say, " So yyou are telling me to quit taking something that could potentially be sustaining my pregnancy (or at least prevent problems down the road) and just wait and not see a doctor for 3 weeks?" She says, "Yup. I pleaded your case to the doctor and she said not to take it."

I definitely think I am getting a new doc now. This just refreshed my memory of all the problems I had with the incompetent staff in my first pregnancy. I like my doc, but some of the others...
IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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  • Wow just wow. My RE has me take baby aspirin until 10 weeks of pregnancy and I was just on an IUI and femara plan.
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  • Whoa! That's insanity, "I pleaded your case"...um not so much as it sounds. Hope you find another (good) doctor!

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  • Ruthie04Ruthie04 member
    edited September 2013
    I may be in the minority, but I think I'd give the RE's nurse a call. I know all clinics are different, but my clinic did the early stuff for a friend who conceived without medical intervention between cycles. They just billed her early betas and visits under OB care. I know it's a little weird since you never really started there, but the worst thing you'll hear is, "no." Plus, they may have helped you get pregnant since they were the ones who put you on the supplements :).
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  • I agree with @Ruthie04. I went straight back to my RE even though he didn't get me KU. I just wanted more early monitoring than an OB would give.
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  • I would stay on baby aspirin & start researching a new OB practice to move to. I also agree with pp's that calling the RE's nurse is a good idea.
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  • Definitely call the RE. They did my early betas and u/s to confirm my pregnancy even though we weren't in a cycle with them.


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  • I agree with pp's, call your RE. Then start looking for a new OB. I'd like to smack that nurse for you...grrrr.
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  • Your OBs office sounds like a nightmare. I dealt with weird bs at my OBs, which is ultimately why I ditched them for the birthing center. If your doc is out until December, you could be desalting with their crap for half your pregnancy.
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  • Geez. Definitely call your RE! Maybe find a new OB while you are at it. ;)
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  • I'm on the 'call your RE' train.  And I am going through something so similar right now with my OB's office (my doc is out too) and it is so annoying.  
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  • I am definitely going to get a new OB. I already have a referral to one in the area that a friend (and her Mom and her sister) used. 

    I am also going to contact the RE's office who told me to take the BA.  I just feel bad because all I ever did was go to a consult there...

    IF DX: DOR & Fragile X pre-mutation carrier
    2011: FSH 13.3 & E 99; AMH 0.54 2nd FSH 6.2 E 40's AFC: 8
    BFP from Clomid/IUI ~ Pre-e and IUGR during pregnancy ~ DS born 9/4/12
    Feb./March 2013: AMH less than 0.16 (undectable) and AFC = 4;
    BFP from supps ~ DS#2 due May 2014

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  • IBackBevo said:

    I am definitely going to get a new OB. I already have a referral to one in the area that a friend (and her Mom and her sister) used. 

    I am also going to contact the RE's office who told me to take the BA.  I just feel bad because all I ever did was go to a consult there...

    Don't feel bad! You hit the jackpot and that's just how it happened. It's not like you had the consult knowing you were not going to need their services
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    I hope you find an awesome OB!
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    Me:34 Type 1 Diabetes, Ankylosing Spondylitis, Hypothyroid DH:35 Perfect
    DX: Unexplained IF
    Many IUI's with various meds all BFFN
    IVF #1 11/11 canceled due to OHSS
    IVF #2 Feb/March 2012 ET of 2 on day 3 4/7 BFP! 5/1 u/s blighted ovum
    IVF #3 July 2012 ET of 3 on day 3 7/24 BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w4d on 3/9/13

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    IVF #4 May/June 2014 ER 6/4 18R 8M 8F ET 6/9 1 blast, 2 frosties
    Beta 6/18 BFFN

    FET of 2 blasts 7/24...BFP!
    Healthy baby girl born at 36w3d on 3/17/15

    TTC#3
    IVF #5 June 2018- PGS planned, no surviving embryos
    IVF #6 August 2018- ET of 2 on day 3 - Chemical pregnancy
    IVF #7 August 2019-....?
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