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Could use some ideas.

Mrs.HizzoMrs.Hizzo member
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As I've mentioned before, my dad is dying of cancer. I don't know how much longer we have with him. He had a good summer, but he's definitely slowing down.

My sisters and I have planned a combination birthday/anniversary party for my dad/parents this Saturday. Convention requires that we give a toast, but we're all sort of at a loss as far as what to say. We can't really talk about the future, you know? Nothing about the many years to come. But we don't want to be all weepy and sad, either. It's tough to know what tone to strike.

What sort of thing would you say, if you were in this situation? And help would be appreciated. Thanks!
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Re: Could use some ideas.

  • MountaineerMommaMountaineerMomma member
    I agree with what Lala said. I wouldn't think it was odd for there not to be a toast, especially if everyone in attendance knows the circumstances. If you do have a toast, maybe just something about how you guys learned what love really means from their example?
    "And though she be but little, she is fierce."
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  • ASullivan1231ASullivan1231 member
    I'm going to take a different view and say a toast would mean more now, then ever. I'd keep it short, sweet and mostly light. Talk briefly about your parents marriage or your parents as individuals and what it's meant to you. Either start or end with a funny story so its not too heavy.

    Also, I'm sorry. This has got to be an emotional time, to say the least. Just to have you and your sisters have s party probably makes your dad burst with pride. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
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  • joyfullyfoundjoyfullyfound member
    I agree you don't need to do a speech... but if you do, you don't necessarily need to mention the future. You can tell good/funny/interesting stories about their marriage, talk about what their relationship has talk you, how their marriage has inspired you to do better with yours, etc. Instead of focusing on the future, focus on the positives and good memories from the past.

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  • Mrs.HizzoMrs.Hizzo member
    Thanks, guys, all good thoughts.
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