I'm going to try and keep this short but if it turns into a novel I have warned you

I have been talking with a photographer in our area for about 3 months sending picture ideas and keeping in contact with her. We booked the pictures about a month in advance an they are tomorrow. We are doing an outside shoot so she told me she would pick a location in my town so I didn't have to travel very far or take much time off work.
Well today I still don't have a location on where to meet her so I send her another e-mail asking where she would like to meet. She tells me she will not be able to come to my town and that I will need to go to her instead if I want the photos done.(she is not willing to reschedule) She is an hour away so it is really no big deal I will just have to take longer off work. Then I just get an e-mail from her saying I will need to bring the chair we are going to use,the balloons, and any other props I would like in her picture.
Don't get me wrong I don't mind bringing things like that but dang woman could you not have told me this last month. She told me she had everything covered and that I just needed her outfits and we would be good to go. I am paying her A LOT more than other photographers have quoted me but her pictures are amazing so I didn't not mind paying the extra, but WHY IN THE HELL is she telling me I need to bring EVERYTHING for this photo session? I sent her an e-mail asking her this and still don't have a response. Everyone who I spoke to before I paid my non refundable deposit said she was amazing and they highly recommended her.
Now I am rushing around trying to find all the props I need for tomorrow. I sure wish I could get my deposit back and tell her just not to worry about it but that is not an option. What would you ladies do? Sorry this turned into a book but I am beyond mad right now!!
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