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I am soooo over this already...

nicoleee89nicoleee89 member
edited September 2013 in Single Parents
Well, i've been with my boyfriend for 7 months and i've lived with him for 6 of those months (yes, i rushed but I know I'm an idiot for it).  He always said how he didn't want kids and blah, blah, blah so i went on BCPs for a few months but stopped them when I didn't have the money to buy a new pack (Lost my job a few days before, worked for tips).  Suddenly, I found out August 27 that I was about 5 weeks pregnant.  I kinda freaked because I really want the baby and knew that he wouldn't.  I told him i was pregnant and suddenly he "wanted it too".  What a bunch of bull.  Turns out he just doesn't want me to break up with him leaving him in an apartment stuck on a lease all by his lonesome with no sex toy (what he uses me for obviously).

I told him today that I don't want to live with him, be with him, sleep with him, or have anything to do with him anymore if he keeps treating me like a piece of meat.  That I will be moving in with my parents soon.  The first thing he brings up is "I don't want to pay child support for a baby I didn't even want".  Welllll now, that's now what he said a few days ago.  I'm officially over him, I'm sleeping on the floor in the spare bedroom.  

Men, I don't need them.  He seems to think that I am going to need a man to be happy.  I don't need that drama.  I'll care for my baby by myself without the bullsh*t spouting from some immature sperm donor's mouth.  I was always much happier on my own anyway.

Rant over.




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  • rachaelT28rachaelT28 member
    I don't blame you, my husband claimed I tricked him. He has not gone to one Dr.s appointment or anything, but you better believe he wants to be there when the baby is born. Luckily I do not live with him at this time I live in a townhouse in town with our two boys. Its more peaceful here as opposed to living with him. Best of luck and do whats best for you and your baby.
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  • nicoleee89nicoleee89 member
    Thanks, we're officially broken up after last night.  He decided that yelling at me would help, BIG PROBLEM.  I don't accept any kind of mental, physical, or verbal abuse of any kind.  

    Peace, bro.  Lmao
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  • 20thirteen20thirteen member
    Yeah, my BD was like "I want kids one day, I can't be with someone who doesn't want kids" like halfway through our relationship and he knew I didn't particularly want kids.  When I got pregnant he was like "oh... you're going to terminate, right? I can't be a dad... I'm not ready to be a dad."  a few weeks of that and then he left me for his other girlfriend (who I had no idea he was seeing), a girl with a 1yo.  Because he isn't ready to be a dad, right? LOL

    He's gone, I'm EXTREMELY happy without him.  DD is the best thing that has ever happened to me.  I'm good.  Good luck with your LO! You'll see, single motherhood is so much easier because you don't have to compromise with ANYONE about ANYTHING! 
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  • nicoleee89nicoleee89 member
    @Roxalot He tried to tell me multiple times he didn't want any kids running around with his DNA.  (Hint hint: Kill it)

    Uhh no, i told him to f*ck off and be alone for the rest of his life for all i care.
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