March 2014 Moms

In laws vent!! Every single one of them!!

Seriously, such lazy f*****rs in this house. There's currently 9 people living here and not one of them can sort the kitchen out. I'm living in a pig's mess at the moment.

Yesterday I called my sil down to clean up because she's finished uni and has free time now doing nothing. She then tells me how it's not fair that everyone's going to think like that. She does absolutely nothing. I turn't around an said to her, I've done very thing for everyone without anyone's help the least you could do is step up now. I'm pregnant I can't be doing half the things I normally do anymore.

Fu**ing lazy sh*ts. So pissed off right now, there's currently two pregnant people in this house and this is their damn attitude.

Re: In laws vent!! Every single one of them!!

  • Why are you living with so many people? Is it a huge house??
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  • Wow, that house sounds crowded. Ever consider getting your own place?
  • Wow!  I have one adult and my boys with me = a mess and loudness!  Any extra adults and a. they would be evicted or b. I would!
  • Yep it's a huge house hence the amount of people. Now I can hear my mil saying why isn't there anything to eat at home?

    Husband and myself are planning to get our own place after my 5 month scan. Just in case.

    Sorry ladies about the swearing I just got so wound up.
  • Maybe have a family meeting and work out a schedule?
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  • When you say you're pregnant now and can't do half the things you normally do... What does that mean?
  • Yeah right, like they give a damn.
    Everyone's thinks a sister in law should do all the work. And not them,

    I've spoken to all of them countless amount of times but it changes for a few days and then goes back to how it was.

    I'm sitting upstairs in my room and I can hear them moaning. My back is killing me hence why I haven't cooked. I threw up my breakfast and came upstairs.
  • Before I was pregnant I would cook and clean the entire house and now because I'm pregnant I can't due to my morning sickness, crazy back pain and nausea.

    You'd think they would help out more but nope!! I get nothing but complaints to the point where I got really depressed living here. I got scared because I thought I had prenatal depression.
  • Are you living with your in- laws? If they're paying the mortgage, that makes a difference.
  • Yeah I'm living with them, my husband pays for everything due to all of his brothers and sisters not working.

    My husband is also expected to pay for everything when we move out too. How sad is that!!
  • It seems like if its not working then you should move.
  • I am hopefully, just another two months left. Just a bit scared if anything happens to my baby. So paranoid right now due to my other sister in law having problems with her pregnancy.

    I could move out now if I wanted to but I want to feel a little better first.
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  • Haha, that's true!! But I think my paranoia is taking over me. It's gone to the extent where I don't care what they say, I'm just doing my own thing.

    My back hurts way too much to do anything. :(
  • Your back pain won't be any better in two months...
  • Oh god, I hope it will be. I'm expecting a delivery on a maternity pillow anyway now. :'(
  • If its an option, why don't you just move?
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  • My mil is still trying to malipulate us into not moving but I'm moving regardless.
  • I think its time to move and put your foot down in terms of YH paying for things.

    Also, I'd be more nervous with what the stress would do to me and my baby more than anything else.

    And since no one is doing anything, if something should happen, then they should be able to come to you on your terms and not overwhelm you.
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  • I'm so sorry, Rabeya. I'm guessing this is a case of the "oldest son takes care of the whole flipping family" tradition? Something has to give for you. I know you probably won't get much response from his parents as they are expecting to be taken care of, but the lazy ass ingrates need to step up and be a part of the family. Financial support is one thing, emotional and familial support needs to be provided by all in exchange for your husband's role in this.
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  • I agree with pp's. Move now, and put your foot down about paying for the in-laws once you move. That's just ridiculous. They can support themselves.
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  • Hubby has to pay for things regardless and apparently that's not up for discussion. Frustrating but I have to support and not be against him. One way or the other we'll make it.


  • I know I can move out, it's just sometimes it's frustrating to see a mess.
  • That's fine, I have apologised for it.
  • Paranoia is keeping you in a place you dislike that much? I don't buy it, if you are that unhappy you are making yourself more miserable staying. It really can't be THAT bad or you would already be moving out, seeing as you say you have the money to do so.
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