I lost my job

bmqcmg · September 2013

I was pulled into my bosses office yesterday after I got back from lunch and was informed that I was being laid off due to corporate pressure for cuts. I had been a full time employee and my SO works part-time since he is still in the early stages of getting his degree.I broke down when my boss told me. I am scared, angry, confused, just so many different emotions since this is a first for me. I'm not sure another employer is going to want a 7 month pregnant person who is considered high risk due to pregnancy induced hypertension and all of my weekly NSTs and U/S start next week.

My biggest hurdle that I am having to cross is that while I was with my ex I was very dependent on him, we put him first through school since he had less time and got him the good paying full-time job. But when I made the decision to leave, I told myself I never wanted to have to depend on someone like that again and got myself all set up with my bills to do it on my own. I lived paycheck to paycheck and child support check to the next, but I was working full-time, I'm going to school full-time, my bills were getting paid and I was providing DD with what she needed. Now I just feel like I have completely gone backwards.

If you made it this far, thank you for listening. I can't sleep so I thought I would type it out.

Chargersgrl33 · September 2013

I am so sorry! That sounds like such a crappy situation. I hope you can find something quick though! There are people willing to hire 7 month pregnant women, go find them:) GL!

MrsCCParra · September 2013

Very sorry to hear this news. I hope something comes around for you quick. Good luck! Hope all of your tests come back with awesome, healthy results!

lafsalot · September 2013

That is terrible! Maybe there is a better job right around the corner, and you had to lose that one to find it? Good luck!!!

Mytaras · September 2013

I'm so sorry! I'm really hoping you find something else. Good luck!

keljackson · September 2013

that really sucks! I'm sorry

brea311 · September 2013

I am so sorry. My husband just lost his job too. All we kept saying at first was - why couldnt they just wait two more months?! Now, I am trying to spin it into whatever positive ju ju I can. If you have all these health issues, maybe the best thing for you is to rest (like the stress of no income really helps with that I know). Apply for unemployment - there is no shame in it - and take the time to look for jobs that you can begin AFTER baby comes. Knowing realistically when your start date at a job could be will benefit everyone. Use this time to interview - be up front about when you can start working. Tell people you dont mind starting now, but obviously note you will be taking leave soon so you understand if they want to drag out a start date. If you are the right person for the job a few months wont be a big deal. Also, it will be harder to go interview once baby comes...so use the time now to do all that! It will work out - have hope.

fitmama418 · September 2013

I'm so sorry this happened to you. Chin-up! Good things will come your way...and soon.

MrsApplelovesMrApple · September 2013

That's terrible! While you are searching for a new job are you eligible for unemployment in your state? This is the kind of situation that unemployment was created for.

katie.725 · September 2013

So sorry to hear this... hoping things start looking up soon for you and your family.

MsCrispy · September 2013

I am so sorry, that is some unneeded stress! I wish you the best!

babymama619 · September 2013

That's awful news I'm so sorry. I really hope this didnt affect your insurance situation. Hopefully SO can figure out how to pic up more hours while you look for something. I'm sure it's going to be hard for a while, but you've already proved you're a strong woman. You can do this, it just sucks you have to.

krm112013 · September 2013

I'm so sorry to hear this.

Lindsayloring1 · September 2013

Sooo sorry to hear this! I can imagine how you feel, and will be praying for you. I hope you find another job quickly. Hugs

aboyle44 · September 2013

So sorry to hear this happened! Sending hugs and well wishes for something great to come your way!! >:D<

artistlife · September 2013

I was laid off at this point in my last pregnancy. I was able to receive unemployment until the day the doc said I couldn't work anymore. I was expected to follow all th protocols that a nonpregnant displaced worker would. So you will have to set interviews and you will have to be ready, willing, and able. Good luck. I know how frustrating it is. I've been there.

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michrocc · September 2013

I'm so sorry, hon. I can't imagine.

For what it's worth, in my office we just hired someone at 7 months pregnant because she was the best candidate for the job. It can and does happen.

Hugs.

fiddlefern · September 2013

I'm so sorry to hear this. Sending you lots hugs.

Joaniebaldwin · September 2013

I am so sorry! This is one of my worst fears. Hugs and prayers that everything will work out!

barista411 · September 2013

I'm so sorry! That is horrible timing. >:D<

SoonToBeRCarlin · September 2013

I'm so sorry. How awful! *hugs*

Kim22 · September 2013

I'm so sorry, I'm sure you didn't need this especially now.

JennOH85 · September 2013

Oh no! I'm so sorry this happened to you. I agree with many of the PPs that maybe the best idea would be to file for unemployment for now and look for work that could start once baby arrives. ((hugs))

bridezilla2myself · September 2013

I am so sorry!

mskatiep · September 2013

I didn't see this addressed by anyone else, but were you the only one laid off? You said your husband works there as well, was he also laid off? Im just curious as to if your pregnancy had anything to do with your company making this decision. Based on your performance evals and time there, is there anyone that "should" have been let go before you? It just always seems questionable to me when companies lay off pregnant women, especially since most companies go out of their way not to even give the appearance of getting rid of the pregnant lady.

bmqcmg · September 2013

Thank you all for your replies and advice. I spent the day running around trying to get everything figured out and I am happy with what I have gotten accomplished in a days time.

bmqcmg · September 2013

mskatiep said:

I didn't see this addressed by anyone else, but were you the only one laid off? You said your husband works there as well, was he also laid off? Im just curious as to if your pregnancy had anything to do with your company making this decision. Based on your performance evals and time there, is there anyone that "should" have been let go before you? It just always seems questionable to me when companies lay off pregnant women, especially since most companies go out of their way not to even give the appearance of getting rid of the pregnant lady.

I was the only one at my location/building laid off. There were two others at different locations that were laid off as well. There is one person that I feel should have been let go before me, but they are married to the boss so I didn't see that happening. My dad wanted me to call a lawyer, but I honestly don't think I am going to get anywhere. I don't really feel that they did anything illegal. Just really sucks because I was already confirmed for my maternity leave and received my papers, plus they were aware that all of my extra appointments were starting for next week for my pregnancy induced hypertension

bmqcmg · September 2013

mskatiep said:

I didn't see this addressed by anyone else, but were you the only one laid off? You said your husband works there as well, was he also laid off? Im just curious as to if your pregnancy had anything to do with your company making this decision. Based on your performance evals and time there, is there anyone that "should" have been let go before you? It just always seems questionable to me when companies lay off pregnant women, especially since most companies go out of their way not to even give the appearance of getting rid of the pregnant lady.

And no, my SO does not work there

mskatiep · September 2013

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bmqcmg said:

mskatiep said:

I didn't see this addressed by anyone else, but were you the only one laid off? You said your husband works there as well, was he also laid off? Im just curious as to if your pregnancy had anything to do with your company making this decision. Based on your performance evals and time there, is there anyone that "should" have been let go before you? It just always seems questionable to me when companies lay off pregnant women, especially since most companies go out of their way not to even give the appearance of getting rid of the pregnant lady.

And no, my SO does not work there

Oh I'm sorry, I read your first post wrong. I'm glad you don't feel like they did anything illegal. Good luck on your job search! I hope something great comes out of this for you!

Balam · September 2013

Feeling so sorry for yo

elroda · September 2013

Such a bummer!! I'm really sorry that this happened and am sending positivity your way! Someone will see your potential!

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