I thought this was totally weird, but maybe it is just me. SD (she is 7) called DH the other day and told him how BM took her shopping and spent $300 at Justice for new clothes for school. DH then heard the following between SD and BM:
BM: Tell your dad thank you for the new clothes
SD: Why he didn't buy them (she was TOTALLY confused)
On a different note, I think I have spent over $600 getting supplies, clothes, shoes, backpack and we had to buy 10 chapter type books that cost over $80 for English class, for a 7th grader. Thankfully my ex usually splits all the costs with me. I feel a little bad that we never split back to school costs with our 2 BM's but they never ask!
Re: Back to school costs - kind of a weird thing bm did
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We have the stepkids EOW, H will take my SS to get some more back to school stuff, he is 15 1/2 and his mom doesn't have a lot of extra money, and CS to her is pretty minimal compared to what BM2 gets, the difference is quite a bit. I did buy my SD a couple of shirts when we were out getting DD some stuff, but it was because I didn't want her to feel left out. But my H would never do it on his own.
My ex has my DD EOW and 1 day a week. We used to buy stuff seperate, but he doesn't like taking my DD shopping so we just started splitting what I spend. But I send copies of the receipts so he knows what I've bought.
Yep, I am pretty sure that is what BM was refering to, but SD's reaction was just funny.
Yep, I am pretty sure that is what BM was refering to, but SD's reaction was just funny.
Did she sound genuine or sarcastic. If she said it nicely I think it is great.