Baby Hayden Frances born 12/20/14 at 11:11 a.m... Our perfect little miracle. Here's how we got here:
My lovely wife:
5 IUI's January 2013-June 2013- 3 Cycles with Clomid- BFN
Myself: Genderqueer guy who hopped in the driver's seat of the baby making train
IUI #6- 7/23- Monitored and Trigger on Day 12, with one 16mm follicle and one 18mm follicle- BFN
IUI #7- 8/21- Not monitored, 50mg Clomid- BFN
September and October: Missed Cycles due to vacation and a Half Marathon
IUI #8- Monitored and triggered on day 15, with one 23x18mm follicle- BFN on 11/19/2013
December: Moved onto to see an RE to make a good plan.
IUI #9- 1/1/2014 Natural Cycle, BFP on 1/15/2014, 6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014
IUI #10 3/21/2014- Natural Cycle- BFP on 4/1/2014 (please don't be an April Fools. Beta #1 13dpiui- 48, Beta #2 16dpiui- 416, Beta #3 1018...
1st Ultrasound- 4/22/2014- 6w4d HB- 134!
Check out my Blog at: http://pregnantboithinksoutloud.blogspot.com/
Re: Saturday Successes!
QOTD: I have to say I hate sports. Hate playing them, hate watching them (live or on TV), hate talking about them. My wife loves them so we definitely don't see eye to eye on that one. I will go to Fenway Park with her occasionally and go get her hot dogs and beer so she doesn't miss any of the action.
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
QOTD: I was that drama club kid who used to walk past the girls locker room after a rugby game muttering, 'lesbians' under my breath. So no, I'm not sporty. I like watching baseball and cricket though, those players have the best bottoms!!
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
QOTD: Obviously (because this is my question) I LOVE college sports. Basketball and football are my favorite seasons. Louisville is my favorite team (born and raised in Louisville and its my alma mater.) I am unreal excited about fall coming and football season being in full affect.
@trisholio Sounds like a crazy week! Sometimes surviving is the biggest success you can have in a week. Think about you all for a better week. Also, Ohio State is my #2 favorite football team and #3 basketball team. I am learning to love them. Hoping to get to at least one game this fall!
Baby Hayden Frances born 12/20/14 at 11:11 a.m... Our perfect little miracle. Here's how we got here:
My lovely wife:
5 IUI's January 2013-June 2013- 3 Cycles with Clomid- BFN
Myself: Genderqueer guy who hopped in the driver's seat of the baby making train
IUI #6- 7/23- Monitored and Trigger on Day 12, with one 16mm follicle and one 18mm follicle- BFN
IUI #7- 8/21- Not monitored, 50mg Clomid- BFN
September and October: Missed Cycles due to vacation and a Half Marathon
IUI #8- Monitored and triggered on day 15, with one 23x18mm follicle- BFN on 11/19/2013
December: Moved onto to see an RE to make a good plan.
IUI #9- 1/1/2014 Natural Cycle, BFP on 1/15/2014, 6W Ultra-Sound Reveals nothing in Gestation Sack... Natural M/C at 7W, 2/3/2014
IUI #10 3/21/2014- Natural Cycle- BFP on 4/1/2014 (please don't be an April Fools. Beta #1 13dpiui- 48, Beta #2 16dpiui- 416, Beta #3 1018...
1st Ultrasound- 4/22/2014- 6w4d HB- 134!
Check out my Blog at: http://pregnantboithinksoutloud.blogspot.com/
I successfully worked my wife's opening event at her new coffeeshop located inside a brand new 10-court tennis facility here in Seattle. We served BBQ pork sliders (we smoke our own meat and it's on the menu always at her original shop), potato salad and cole slaw. I managed to only irritate her once (whoops) and otherwise did a good job working in a world that is not normally my own. Though, it was cute at the end one of her young employees said "Wow, you did a good job! I kept looking for things to do and you'd already done them!" It was cute, but in my own defense I worked a sh*t ton of food service jobs in college. I actually loved it
Now, my feet hurt from a 5-hour gig! Lame! Bonus I went to Bikram Yoga on Friday for the first time in like a year + (I used to practice 6x/week for years and years) - and I went to Yin Yoga Saturday. #winning
QOTW: I have tended to morph on this based on who I'm with. Ok so I've had 3 serious relationships in my life. First one, she loved rich-girl sports (she was a rich girl from New England) - so tennis and skiing were what she watched. It bored me. Second relationship was ~7 years with my high school first love, she is a mega-sporto and had read every Sports Illustrated cover-to-cover since age 9 (and kept them in our basement)...so during that time, I tended to watch more football and basketball (she played Div 1 ball in college). Now, J *hates* just about all sports. However - I love college basketball because they play with so much emotion and passion, I'm definitely a Steelers fan and I love to watch NFL games, esp. if on an elliptical at the gym. And, attending an occasional Mariners game is fun but usually more social. And - Seattle is a HUGE Soccer town - going to a Seattle Sounders game? Now that is a purely amazing social/human experience, the sports aspect aside.
Me (43) and J (45) - same sex couple. And we don't feel 40+!
June'12 - First RE Visit
Sept. '12 - Tubes removed
Dec. '12 - Donor Egg/Donor Sperm IVF Cycle - 4 good embies!
Dec. '12 - Fresh transfer, BFP! EDD 8/29/13
Mar. '13 - Missed m/c at 16w1d, baby boy stopped growing at 15w4d
Loss due to umbilical cord clot...baby was perfect.
Jul '13 - FET#1 - c/p
Sept. '13 - FET#2 - BFN
Dec.' 2, 2013 - FET#3 with our last chance embie - BFP!!!
Dec' 26, 2013 - hb!!
EDD 8/20/14 with a baby girl!
Little S was born on 8/21/14 - 8lb, 14 oz and 20 inches long.
We live in Seattle and used SRM for our donor egg IVF cycle
Me - 30, My wife - 31 , Together for 10 yrs - Married August 2012
5 medicated IUIs w/ RE (March - July 2013) = BFN
Fresh IVF Cycle in September 2013 resulted in 18 mature eggs, 16 fertilized, 12 made it to day 5. Transfer of 2 Grade A blastocysts on 9/15/13, and 10 embryos in the freezer! *****BFP on 9/25/13 - betas: @10dp5dt = 232; @12dp5dt = 465; @15dp5dt = 1,581 *********William George born June 4, 2014*********\:D/
9 IUIs = 9 BFNs
IVF October 2012: 22 eggs retrieved, 17 fertilized, 5 frozen
ET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Blighted ovum discovered at 7w5d; D&E
FET #1: 1 blast = BFP; Missed m/c discovered at 9w5d; D&E
Karyotyping: normal ~ RPL Testing: normal ~ Hysteroscopy: normal
FET #2: 1 blast transferred 10/25; BFP 10/31!
EDD 7/13/14 ~ Induced at 37w4d due to pre-eclampsia ~ Born on 6/28/14
*Everyone welcome*
QOTD: I'm a jock. I love playing sports, especially baseball (hardball, not softball) and have played since I was a kid. I now play in a women's baseball league in Toronto and used to play in one in DC. There are a few such leagues and it is great to have women to play baseball with. I also like playing basketball. Other sports I mostly play here and there in pick-up game fashion--soccer, football, etc. In college, I played rugby on the club team for two years. In high school, I did a couple years of volleyball in addition to basketball and track and field. In college, my big sport was track. I was a thrower--shot put, hammer, weigh, and discus. I loved it. And was very competitive (especially in shot) at the NCAA Division III national level.
I'm not much of a sports watcher. I do enjoy watching baseball, but hardly ever watch any sport, including baseball on TV. I don't follow professional teams in any sport. As a kid, I followed the Chicago Cubs (baseball). I enjoy the idea of being a Blue Jays fan now that I'm in Toronto and have gone to some games with some teammates, but I don't watch the games on TV or follow the team.
We're queer. I'm 33, have severe stage 4 endo, and had both fallopian tubes removed. My love ("Manada" on the boards, 32) was diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve. We did Partner IVF (my eggs, her uterus). We lost our twins Tavin and Casey at 21 weeks gestation.
Our IUIs
with @Manada: IUI# 1-7 (December 2012- September 2013) all BFN. Tried natural, femara, clomid, puregon/follistim, clomid and menopur combo, both the ovidrel and HCG triggers.
Our IVFs:
IVF #1 my eggs November/December 2013: Cancelled IVF due to poor response
IVF #2 my eggs/Manada's uterus January/February 2014
BCPs and lupron overlap Stimmed: 1/22-2/2: Bravelle and Menopur (dosage ranged from B300 and M150 to B375 and M150 to B300 and M225)
2/4 retrieved 10 eggs. Endo was much worse than expected. Only 3 eggs fertilized; February 7 transferred two day 3 embryos, froze one. All great condition.
BFP eve of 6dp3dt; Beta 1 (11dp3dt): 110; Beta 2 (13dp3dt): 175; Beta 3 (15dp3dt): 348; Beta 4 (19dp3dt): 2222; Beta 5 (21dp3dt): 4255
1st ultrasound (3/6 6w 1d): TWINS!!!! Twin A measuring 6w1d with a heartbeat of 118bpm. Twin B measuring 6w0d with a heartbeat of 113bpm.
***July 18, 2014 we lost our beautiful babies at 21 weeks gestation. They were born too early. Tavin Sara T. and Casey Elizabeth T. are beautiful and precious and we will love them and miss them forever.***
FET #1 December 2014
So now our little family of 3.5 is pretty much homeless, yes we own 2 homes, but we live in neither so... GULP!! My success also includes not freaking out (yet) about the above mentioned quandary...
QOTD: Sports??? LOL - nope don't watch or play. I love informal sports, or learning new things, Ioved golf for a minute, used to take tennis lessons and really like tennis, and I was on various swim teams as a kid and young person. But I don't play any sports currently and the last team I belonged on was EV's work softball league and I was THE WORST player. Sigh... It was pretty hopeless.
My big success this weekend: seeing one of my dearest friends and having dinner with him. I don't get to talk to him nearly as often as I'd like, and I only see him once in a great while since he lives in San Fran and I live in Indiana. He hates Indiana, and I can't afford to fly out west often so we're often left with an abyss between us. But when we see each other it's like nothing's changed. I just wish he was happier. He seemed sad to me, lonely... I wanetd to fix it for him but I know there's not really anything I can do except offer to let him know I'm here for him.
QOTD: DP and I are bad lesbians. We HATE sports. I really wish I liked them, too, so I could join in everyone's excitement for football. But honestly, I view them as nothing more than a nuissance that gets in the way of my reality TV shows. I throw a fit when some stupid game interferes with my Sunday night shows and I miss recording them because the game went into over time. Grrrrrrr! When Indy hosted the Super Bowl, DP and I made an appearance, had a beer at a brew pub just to say we went, and then left as quickly as we arrived. Not our thing, despite everyone's best efforts to try to encourage more enthusiasm from us.