Would You Call?
PrettyFade
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I usually don’t care for these posts either, so I apologize in advance….<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" />
Mom has been gone for 3 years…crazy girlfriend lives with dad (step-dad who adopted me after marriage). Without going into too much, she has broken something sentimental in every family member’s house she has been in, caused drama, talked trash about my mom, and is no longer welcome…anywhere. But dad still keeps her.
Point: She keeps calling. She calls on her cell phone, and not my dad’s home line, so at least I know it’s her and don’t have to answer. Don’t like her. She’s not welcome. But Dad never calls. He’s called maybe 3 times this whole pregnancy.
Would you call her back out of guilt? Would you call her back out of decency? Would you even call her back?
I want dad to be a part of this, but he doesn’t seem to care, and leaves it up to her. That would have been ok I suppose….if it was mom. But it’s not.
Thoughts?
Re: Would You Call?
Honestly though, I don't think you even need to call. It just sounds like this is weighing on you (which is understandable) and if you feel strongly that you need to talk to him then you should.