Just need to vent....

So, when I got pregnant I weighed about 160.  Which on my 5'3" frame was overweight a bit.  During my pregnancy I let myself go crazy. Which was so stupid, because I know the way my family history is with weight gain.  So the day I delivered, I weighed 220lbs.  I thought I was GOING TO DIE being that heavy.  Was on bed rest the last two weeks, and delivered early due to preE.  So after baby, I came down to 182.  Then again, dumb be gained another 10 lbs.  So I have been trying to lose weight the last 2 months and have lost 10 lbs.  Back down to 182.  But...

Over the last two weeks, I have gotten asked by FOUR people I used work with at my old job (grocery store, so I'm in there often) if I was pregnant again.  The first 2 times I just shook it off. The third time, I was irritated.  Now tonight I was out on a walk with my son (DH working til close tonight) and a woman I used to work with walks by, and first thing she says is "oh!! you're pregnant again!" Not a question of if I was.  Just a statement that I am.  I just looked at her, and said, actually I'm not. And she says "oh... you haven't lost your baby weight yet?"  I wanted to run away, but I tried to be really polite and just end the conversation and keep walking.  I am going to the gym 4 times a week, trying like hell to keep my eating under control, and yet I still get asked this? Of course it is none of her business and I shouldn't let it get my down.  But I called my mom and just sobbed on the phone to her when I got home.  I think it is so incredibly rude to ask someone unless it is blatantly obvious that they are pregnant, which I don't feel like I look.  I just happen to still carry the weight in mostly my mid section.

Sorry this is long, but I am just having a hard time getting myself over this one.  I feel like I need to start grocery shopping elsewhere... and I guess not leave my house, since I can't even take an evening stroll with my son.