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FTM, whiny, dramatic, emotional, and so ill...

JessieAlbinJessieAlbin member
in April 2014 Moms
Seriously. I am trying real hard to rationalize that as I wait for my first ultrasound next week, the sicker and more awful I feel, the better chance that LO is in there building things and healthy. Really trying to not take for granted what a blessing this child is that I wanted (want), tried for, and prayed for. But being pregnant so far sucks. It's hard, I feel awful, all the time, food is ruined, pooping is awful, I'm sick when I don't eat and I'm sick when I do, I can't sleep and I am tired all day, work is almost unbearable, water makes me want to vom, I have the worst dreams, I already feel like the good year blimp, and I am terrible company cause all I can do is whine about how shitty it is to be pregnant. Struggling here, y'all.
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  • melzhmelzh member
    I hear you on the can't sleep/work thing. I love being pregnant... but not with my current job and lack of sleep.
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  • stphaniestphanie member
    I feel this way exactly. Pregnancy is miserable for me, and it makes me feel awful that I feel that way. Everyday feels unbearable and it seriously depresses me. For me, I know with my previous two pregnancies, this stuff went on for all 9 months, so I feel no end in sight. Most likely you will be like most people and be rid of this crap after first trimester, so rest assured in that. When the question would always come up about whether we'd have a third baby, my response was always that I wasn't sure I could endure pregnancy again. I knew I could handle another baby, just maybe not the 9 months getting there. Some women have it so easy, and it makes me so jealous! And I feel so guilty being this sick because I feel like my other two children arnt getting the best of their mom. Zofran doesn't work for me. Nothing does. And I'm terrified about something going wrong and losing this baby, because I know I wouldn't be able to go through pregnancy again, so it's now or never here. I know this is long and whiny, but at least know you're not alone in your misery. Sometimes pregnancy just plain sucks.
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  • klgallupklgallup member
    This is me. This is my second pregnancy. The first one was the same. The babies are worth it in the end. It does really suck though. I can't stand the "I want morning sickness" boards when I am just trying my best to keep from being readmitted to the hospital for fluids.
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  • thomas930thomas930 member
    Hang in there, most people start feeling better between 12 and 14 weeks....while it seems like a long time from now I'm sure....its really just a blip in these 9 months. 
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  • AndrewsgalAndrewsgal member
    I am sorry I know how miserable it is hange in there it really is all worth it.
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  • JessimaxJessimax member
    There is a reason it took my husband 3 years to wear me down enough to have another kid lol. Last pregnancy I was so sick the whole way through (only gained 9lbs) and this one is shaping up the same. And as a nurse I definitely don't work in a domain that allows for feeling this way.
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  • JessieAlbinJessieAlbin member
    Jessimax said:

    There is a reason it took my husband 3 years to wear me down enough to have another kid lol. Last pregnancy I was so sick the whole way through (only gained 9lbs) and this one is shaping up the same. And as a nurse I definitely don't work in a domain that allows for feeling this way.

    If DH wants more than one he had better hope there's a second heartbeat on that U/S next week.. I don't think I can do this twice!
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  • nikki912nikki912 member
    I felt that way my first pregnancy- and I'm starting to feel that way again. Luckily by 12 weeks or so I was a new woman..until week 38...then I was in hell again (it was August). Hopefully you'll feel better in a few weeks :)
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  • babyfever1111babyfever1111 member
    Me too!! I feel EXACTLY the same way!! I want to scream to anyone that will listen that I hate this and I don't want to be pregnant anymore!! But I know that most people won't understand.... I wanted (want) this, prayed for it even! And I got exactly what I wanted... And it sucks (right now anyway).
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  • KKG11467KKG11467 member
    I had my DS at 22, and was sick then...but now at 35, it is WAY harder!  
    I have never felt so sick before, EVER!! I know it is all worth it, and hopefully it will go away around 12 weeks. 
    I would love to meet these women who claim they love being pregnant...they are probably the ones that say they had a natural birth and it did not hurt. 
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