April 2014 Moms

Perhaps this is my own UO....

But I feel like the UO thread every week serves no purpose other than to stir up trouble. I think I'm at the point of completely ignoring that thread and not opening it up at all.... I just feel like there's always so much unnecessary hate on Thursdays.... Anyone else want to start a different every- Thursday post? Ideas?
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Re: Perhaps this is my own UO....

  • Yes,that is the purpose.
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  • I haven't read a single post in that epic cluster. Agreed.
  • I've never read it, but I did today.... Wow
  • I liked UO threads when I was on TTGP.  I'm participating in today's a little.  I'm kind-of hoping ours will get a bit less insane once everyone who is taking it too far realizes they aren't flame-free and that there is such a thing as reasonable, spirited debate.
  • I agree with you! I peeked in this morning, but generally I avoid the UO posts
    How about thirsty Thursday?! Alcohol for everyo.... oh, wait.
    Virgin Mudslides???


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  • I tend to read it and will partake in the light uo but I never get in the full on the battle.
    Plus being in Canada I feel like maybe our opinions aren't as strong as others...
    How about tasty desserts?

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  • I have to say, I really don't read too many posts that have gone past 2 pages. No matter what the topic.
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  • I think it warrants a separate thread for those of us who are avoiding the actual thread like the plague!


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  • Well, seeing that UO and FFFC are both Bump traditions,  they more than likely wont be going anywhere, so those that don't like it can ignore it.
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  • Meh. That's all I got
  • patunia7321patunia7321 member
    edited August 2013
    I have to say, I really don't read too many posts that have gone past 2 pages. No matter what the topic.

    Agree. I'm relatively new, but I'm thinking once I see the decimal and k in the view column I'm out. I can't seem to follow the multiple quotes of quotes of quotes. (Nor do I really care.) edit: add content

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  • I vote we make UO Thursdays UFO Thursdays instead, it would be far more amusing.

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    Yes!  Can we somehow incorporate Unsolved Mysteries into this?


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  • Ancient Aliens= The absolute best show for my afternoon napping. All of those monotone voices, its like a lullaby.

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  • TallaB said:

    I vote we make UO Thursdays UFO Thursdays instead, it would be far more amusing.

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    Yes!  Can we somehow incorporate Unsolved Mysteries into this?
    Yes!!

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  • Ancient Aliens= The absolute best show for my afternoon napping. All of those monotone voices, its like a lullaby.
    My #1 is any nature documentary narrated by a British guy.  Preferably David Attenborough.  I love him, but he just lulls me right to sleep every time.
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    FFFC?
    Flame Free Friday Confessions, officially. Rarely is it flame free, though.
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  • ichabody said:
    FFFC?
    Flame Free Friday Confessions, officially. Rarely is it flame free, though.
    Yep, even though it says "flame free" you can still be flamed.
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  • I don't even read it.  Too many posts and I don't have time to read it all.
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  • I usually don't read them. I was going to ask someone to summarize today's for me, like in two sentences. I just can't bring myself to open that thread.
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  • TallaB said:

    I agree with you! I peeked in this morning, but generally I avoid the UO posts



    How about thirsty Thursday?!

    Alcohol for everyo.... oh, wait.

    Virgin Mudslides???


    That would be Milkshake Monday!
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  • TallaB said:

    I agree with you! I peeked in this morning, but generally I avoid the UO posts



    How about thirsty Thursday?!

    Alcohol for everyo.... oh, wait.

    Virgin Mudslides???


    I had a frozen virgin margarita tonight; it was still good! They gave my sister the shot of tequila instead. :)
  • I finished the season of Orange ITNB. What else was I going to do for entertainment? I found the thread nearly as entertaining. How does it weed out the crazies. Can't they just rejoin under a new name?

    I also live in Ontario where those hot topics are hardly ever discussed anymore.

    I dislike virgin drinks. What's the point.

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  • Mandyw75 said:
    I finished the season of Orange ITNB. What else was I going to do for entertainment? I found the thread nearly as entertaining. How does it weed out the crazies. Can't they just rejoin under a new name? I also live in Ontario where those hot topics are hardly ever discussed anymore. I dislike virgin drinks. What's the point.
    They can but most aren't smart enough to not conceal the crazy and it will come out again and usually everyone will recognize it. 
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  • I don't participate in those threads because I'm boring and my opinions are not unpopular, but I like to read them for entertainment value. I'd go crazy only reading/talking about pregnancy and babies.
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  • nikki912nikki912 member
    edited August 2013
    I like the idea of the UO but it takes on a life of its own and people get out of control. I am not a fan of all the snark, although I've learned that's just the culture.

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  • I don't really understand post like this. If you don't like them don't read them.
  • What I don't understand is how are you not at least curious as to what is worth being said for 18 pages!?!?!? Hah. Oh goodness the entertainment and gifs will never get old. 
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  • I don't mind the thread being there but is not my thing.
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  • I just don't open them. I'm not into the drama
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  • Eh I just back away if it gets crazy! We may not want to admit it sometimes, sometimes it's hormones, and sometimes it's the crazies. Oh well! To each their own IMO.

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  • It's cool not to read the UO, and it's cool to start a new drama free thread on Thursdays, but like previous posters said, most people get into them for the political debates and for the drama...I was smack dab in the center of the one yesterday and thought it was super interesting to see how people responded and reacted to a very sensitive topic...

    There can be really great conversations that happen once we get a better handle on the board dynamic and feel people out a bit more.

    FWIW (for what it's worth) - that was a pretty intense UO yesterday, they aren't always like that and don't always end up like that.
                                                                            
                                                          
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  • What's the UO post? I need some entertainment! LOL!
  • What's the UO post? I need some entertainment! LOL!
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