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I think this is appropriate

ashtonblair123ashtonblair123 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
So often we try to make other people feel better by minimizing their pain, by telling them that it will get better (which it will) or that there are worse things in the world (which there are). But that’s not what I actually needed. What I actually needed was for someone to tell me that it hurt because it mattered. I have found this very useful to think about over the years, and I find that it is a lot easier and more bearable to be sad when you aren’t constantly berating yourself for being sad. - John Green
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Re: I think this is appropriate

  • giraffe2112giraffe2112 member
    Thank you for sharing this! I needed to see this!
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  • ashtonblair123ashtonblair123 member
    My friend sent it to me and its probably been the most comforting thing anyone has said to me.
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    BFP 08/14/13 EDD 04/18/14 Natural MC 08/19/13
    BFP 10/15/13 EDD 06/24/2014 Natural MC 10/23/13
    Recurrent Miscarriage Panel done 11/06/13. Results= All normal
    BFP 12/2/13 EDD July 30, 2014
    Beta 12/3/13: 19,261!
    U/S 12/13/13 heart rate 143 bpm!

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  • rubes90rubes90 member
    I love this and think we all need it. I find some people don't know what to say and that's okay but sometimes I wish they'd just say nothing then. I should be allowed to cry and feel sad and let my feelings out bc it did matter
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  • MommaAshley12MommaAshley12 member
    Very appropriate! Thanks for posting.
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