My vote is that I never swaddled. They swaddled her in the hospital once, I let her sleep, then unswaddled her and that was the end of that. I never swaddled my son either. Both are good sleepers.
Did you not swaddle for any specific reason? Just curious!
When I was a young mom with DS, an elderly relative advised me (that's the polite way of saying yelled at me in the old world mommy way) that I shouldn't swaddle the baby or else he'd have a hard time getting himself to sleep as he got older. She could have very well been full of sh!t, but I followed those instructions, and DS is one of the best sleepers ever. I hope my daughter is as good a sleeper. So far so good.
We stopped swaddling in the first few weeks, but I think we're going to try swaddling again as we move from napping in the swing to the crib. I was watching her nap yesterday, and she kept startling over and over again, and she only slept for 40 mins. I think swaddling would help her be more rested and sleep longer.
We also only swaddle at night or if he's really fighting a nap but I'm trying to get out if it because he really likes to suck his hands and he fights so much to get the out lately
Mr Man enjoys sleeping with his hands above his head. He also seems to sleep pretty well through his startles. We stopped swaddling as soon as we got home from the hospital. The Montessori daycare we were looking at suggested not swaddling, so we just went for it. Nothing against swaddling, it just seemed like it wasn't necessary for us.
We swaddle all the time although he can sleep without it for a short period of time. I swaddled my older son until 9 months when he learned to roll and he had no problem being weaned of the swaddle. He is an amazing sleeper and always has been. I plan on using the swaddle as long as needed.
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