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Trouble TTC
emma403
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Trouble ttc
emma403
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I have been TTC for 3 months now and nothing.. i dont know what to do... any advice?
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Re: Trouble ttc
It can take a healthy couple a year to conceive. I know the whole process is frustrating and you get all anxious once you finally decide to try and have a baby, but you need more patience.
This board is for women who have been TTC 12+ months (or 6+ if over 35), so the Trying to Get Pregnant Board is for you. There is a post towards the top of the board for If You Are New to TTGP, and it has a great link for newbies. You can read up on charting and other common questions you may have.
Me 33, DH 37 -- TTC since Jan'12 -- Low AMH (0.78) & endo, SA w/ low motility
IUI's 1-3 = BFN, IVF converted to IUI 4/13 = BFN
IVF 1.2: 8R 6M 4F -- 2 blastocysts frozen, FET 8/15 = BFP!!
Beta #s = 445;1,098; 9,545 -- EDD 5/2 -- Team Pink!
This.
3 months is nothing. Like PP's have said, it can take a healthy couple up to a year to conceive. Even with perfect timing you only have a 20% chance each cycle. You will find no sympathy on this board after trying for three months. Come talk to us when you hit 18 months, 24 months, or 3-4 years.
ETA: I suggest you lurk on TTGP. Read the newbie blog. Intro over there. Start charting your temps and learning more about your cycles.
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Me 32 :: DH 41
TTC since November, 2011
DH's SA : Excellent
Lap and Hysteroscopy June 2012
DX: PCOS, Stage III Endo, slight Adenomyosis, blocked tube, and probable LPD
Treatments: 6 Months Lupron Depot injections; 1500 mg metformin; 3 cycles of Clomid + TI = BFN
3 endometrial biopsies all were "out of phase"
September - December, 2013: Break to lose weight and get healthy
40 lb weight loss but still not ovulating "in phase"
February - March 2014: bcps + follistim + trigger + TI = BFP
Beta #1 (12dpo): 30; Beta #2 (18dpo): 500; Beta #3 (25dpo): 7,000!!!
1st u/s 4/16: One beautiful hb at 144 bmp
2nd u/s 4/29: hb at 166 bmp. Graduated from RE!!
TEAM PINK!
Baby girl arrived on Thanksgiving day weighing 7lbs 6oz and measuring 20 inches
Just looking for some advice but i guess this isnt the right place... sorry
To each their own, I guess....
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Me 33, DH 37 -- TTC since Jan'12 -- Low AMH (0.78) & endo, SA w/ low motility
IUI's 1-3 = BFN, IVF converted to IUI 4/13 = BFN
IVF 1.2: 8R 6M 4F -- 2 blastocysts frozen, FET 8/15 = BFP!!
Beta #s = 445;1,098; 9,545 -- EDD 5/2 -- Team Pink!
@emma403, please stop posting in this thread. I know you started it, but this is not the right place for you. You are looking for the "Trying to Conceive" board. Not the Trouble Trying to Conceive board. You have been given more advice that you probably should have at this point about getting some patience. As to not being able to find the right board - well, it is right around where you found this one. If you can't located it, then you probably shouldn't post there either.
The women on here have been going through years of grief trying to get pregnant. We simply don't want to hear about an unemployed woman trying to get pregnant before her BF goes back to jail. Sorry.
4 rounds of clomid, 2 with IUI = BFN
i have stopped posting just leave it
TTC since July 2011
BFP #1: 2/15/12-Ectopic/Mtx at 6 wks
BFP #2: 10/12/12-m/c at 5 wks.
Me: MTHFR, Low AMH (1.1), High NK cells and Antiphospholipid Antibodies.
IVF with ICSI in August 2013 brought us our babies. ER-9R, 7M, 4F w/ICSI ET of 2-Grade 2 blasts.
Dx shortened cervix, PTL, and preeclampsia during pregnancy. Lots of medications and 13 weeks of bedrest, babies were born healthy at 34w4d!
4 rounds of clomid, 2 with IUI = BFN
1/7/2015 Twins born @ 34 weeks
IUI#4 1/23/13 on 75iu x9 Follistim = BFP then chem preg m/c (Feb 2013)
IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
S/PAIFW , S/PALW
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IVF/FET #1 - BFP!!
DX - PCOS 2004
FET #2 - scheduled for 11/24/15
** After 2 1/2 years of Unexplained IF, 2 failed medicated cycles, and 4 failed IUI's - our baby girl came to us through the miracle of Mini IVF! **
**Follow your heart, but take your brain with you**
And since you're looking for advice, I'm giving you some unsolicited advice:
Your future child deserves a father who is a positive role model and who can actively participate in his/her life. You don't "go back to jail" for minor offenses.
On a practical note- who is going to help you raise this baby, because it doesn't sound like your boyfriend will be in the picture. How is he going to pay child support if he's behind bars?
Do you have daycare lined up?
Do you have health insurance for yourself and for the child?
If you deliver early, will you be able to afford take time away from work to be with your child in the NICU?
THIS!
Me:38 DH:40 TTC for over 3 yrs~
Every test known to man- comes out that we are both perfectly capable of conceiving-
Officially diagnosed with "unexplained infertility"
7/17/13-1st try with 100mg Clomid+Novarel+Prog.
7/25/13 Mid-cycle U/S- 4 Follicles! 17, 16,L 16,15 R
It did not go well.
We did not like her.
She has been banned.