TTC After a Loss

Early Introduction - Loss Mentioned

I wanted to introduce myself even though I will be only lurking for a while. I just had a D&E last week and am trying to heal emotionally and physically. Our first pregnancy was with identical twins and was very high risk and difficult the entire time. Our doctor has said we can start TTC again after two months and that is what we are planning to do. I just wanted to introduce myself even though we don't plan to start trying for a while. 
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Re: Early Introduction - Loss Mentioned

  • I'm sorry for your loss. You don't have to be actively trying to post. I'm currently trying to avoid at the moment. We have a TTA check in on Fridays. Welcome. We have a great blog that is linked in my signature. Just click the badge.

          THE DARK SIDE IT IS

     and GBCB

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    BFP 8/2/12 EDD 4/9/13 Addie was delivered 1/4/13 at 26 weeks due to Eclampsia  

    BFP 9/15/14 EDD 5/28/15 Please be our R A I N B O W take home baby BOY
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. Also, like Poppy said, the blog is very helpful. I hope your stay is short.

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    TTC #1 since January 2013

    BFP #1: April 5, 2013; EDD December 11, 2013; Missed M/C May 15, 2013

    BFP #2: February 17, 2014; EDD October 30, 2014; M/C March 15, 2014

    BFP #3: August 1, 2014; EDD April 14, 2015 - Praying for our RAINBOW!

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  • So sorry for your loss and welcome to the board. I am also not quite ready to start TTC again but this board has given me boat loads of useful info as well as a ton of support.

    BFP #1: 3/23/13, EDD: 11/22/13, MC: 4/2/13
    Convinced it was a boy and missing him every day!
    BFP #2: 10/25/13, EDD: 7/3/14, Grow baby Grow! Anabelle Rose born 6/6/14 

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  • Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your loss.

    1 miracle Earth baby and 5 Angel babies

    ~All welcome~

  • Qfrump said:

    Thank you for the introduction.  I am so sorry for your losses.  Please check out the blog (https://ttcalblog.blogspot.com/).  It has lots of really useful information on it about trying again, and just in general.  I have been here for months and still refer to it often.  


    After looking through the blog and getting a feel for the board, please feel free to jump in.  This board is a great place to give and receive support.  Adding an avatar and signature can help us recognize you faster and get to know you better.  

    Take care of yourself while in recovery.  
    THIS! Well said Q! I'm sorry you find yourself here but this is a wonderful place to give and receive support. GL to you on this journey!

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    Me: 38, DH: 40 | Married April 2012 | TTC since October 2012  

    DX: Hypothyroid, DOR, Right Tube Blocked, Uterine Fibroid (awaiting hysteroscopy) | DH: Beta Thal Minor, ED (Cialis)

    OCT - DEC 2012 | TI | BFN

    JAN 2013 | BFP ~ EDD 9/23/13

    MAR 2013 | MMC due to Trisomy 10 ~ D&E MAR. 8

    APR - JUN 2013 | TTA

    JUL - NOV 2013 | TI |  BFN

    NOV 2013 | HSG & SHG ~ Right Tube Blocked & "Thickening" of Uterus

    DEC 2013 - JAN 2014 | NTNP |  BFN ~ Switched to new practice

    JAN - FEB 2014 | 3-D u/s & SHG ~ Uterine Fibroid ~ Awaiting Hysteroscopy

    ***All Are Welcome!***

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  • I'm very sorry for your loss :(  welcome!
  • I am so sorry for your loss. You have found a very supportive community, full of amazing and wise women. While you are benched and still healing, please heal a piece of your heart by making a few friends on the board, it will go a long way (((hugs))).
    3/29/12 - Married my soulmate
    BFP #1 - 3/23/13 // EDD - 11/27/13 // M/MC - 5/3/13 // D&C - 5/4/13
    BFP #2 - 8/26/13 // EDD - 5/10/14 // Born 5/18/14

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    We were pregnant with identical twins too in a very high risk pregnancy. We're yours mo-mo by chance! Just curious. I am so very sorry for your losses. ((Hugs)) and welcome. As PP said, please feel free to jump in once you are comfortable. You don't have to wait until you are ttc. Also, don't feel like you have to ttc in two months just because that's when you have the green light. Be sure that you are emotionally ready for it as well. It's a tough road, but we are here for you.

    married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
    BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
    mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13

    BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14 

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    All AL always welcome in my threads!

  • I'm sorry for the loss of your twins. Welcome to the board. Lurk all you need. As PP said, you don't have to be actively trying to conceive yet to post and there is a "TTA" or "Trying to Abstain" check-in if you're interested

    TTC since April 2012

    BFP #1, 10/03/2012 - EDD 6/15/2013 - MMC 11/15/2012 - D&C 01/04/2013

    BFP #2, 04/06/2013 - EDD 12/17/2013 - MC 04/19/2013

    6/12/2013 Diagnosed with Balanced Translocation (12 & 16)

    IVF #1 with PGS: 10/2013: Canceled 9/27/2013 for issues with genetic lab

    IVF #1.5 with PGS: 11/16/2013: Canceled. 11 eggs retrieved, 9 mature & 9 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #2: 1/22/14: Canceled. 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 7 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #3 with PGS: 5/10/2014: Switched to FET in July. 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized, 2 healthy embryos!

    FET #1: 7/31/2014: Transferred 2 nearly perfect (6AA, 6BA) healthy embryos- BFFN

    Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus

    IVF #4: 12/8/2014: Canceled. 17 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 10 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos



    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

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  • I'm very sorry about your loss. Welcome.
  • Welcome to the board. Sorry you find yourself here. I'm so sorry for the loss of your babies.
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    BFP 4/17/13, MC began 5/2/13 @ 6 weeks
    EDD 12/27/13
    TTC since 2/2013
    BFP#2 9/23/13 EDD 6/8/14
     
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  • Welcome to the board.  I am very sorry for your loss.

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

  • Welcome.  I am so sorry for your loss.  Thank you for taking the time to lurk, and ditto PPs on checking out the blog.


                                                         
  • I'm sorry for your loss. I hope your stay is short and sweet with us!

     

  • I'm very sorry for your losses. Welcome to the board! I hope your stay is short as well!


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    BFP #1 - 6-2009 - edd 1-23-10 - mmc - discovered by u/s @ 13wks 2days - D&C
    BFP #2 - 10-15-2010 - Baby boy born 6-11-11
    BFP#3 - 6-2013 - edd 2-21-14 -mmc discovered by u/s @ 9 wks - D&C
    BFP #4 - 3-10-14 - edd 11-19-14 - natural miscarriage 4-10-14
    BFP #5 - 8-24-14 - edd 5-5-15 - Please be our RAINBOW!!! <3
    U/S 9-30 - baby measuring right on track, heart rate of 155bpm
    U/S 10-8 & 10-14 - baby is growing perfectly!
    10-20 - 151 bpm 10-31 153 bpm
    11-13 IT'S A BOY!!!!!
    12-11 & 12-18 - 144 bpm everything looked great at recheck of a/s
  • They were mo-di. SIUGR started to develop at 12 weeks and they both died from complications of SIUGR at 20 weeks. We were prepared to try laser photocoagulation but the day we went in they found no heart beats during the pre-op ultrasound. It has been a very difficult ride. 
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  • They were mo-di. SIUGR started to develop at 12 weeks and they both died from complications of SIUGR at 20 weeks. We were prepared to try laser photocoagulation but the day we went in they found no heart beats during the pre-op ultrasound. It has been a very difficult ride. 
    ((Hugs))

    married my best friend 10/04/08, TTC since July 2012
    BFP#1 Thanksgiving 11/22/12, mo-mo twins(one sac), traditional EDD 7/27/13, EDD due to risk 6/15/13
    mmc Angel 2/7/13 @ 15w3d, mmc Aubrey 2/13/13 @ 16w2d, D&E 2/16/13

    BFP#2 9/21/13, EDD 6/2/14, DD born 5/17/14 

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    All AL always welcome in my threads!

  • I am very sorry for the loss of your twins. Big ((hugs)) and welcome to the board!
    I'm 31 and DH is 36

    Started dating in 2008 and married November 10, 2012

    TTC#1 Since Oct 2012

    MC#1 5/30/2013 ~ EDD 1/4/2014 natural @ 9 weeks

    MC#2 8/12/2013 ~ EDD 4/13/2014 natural @ 5 weeks 5 days

    BFP #3 EDD 12/9/2014

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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your babies.  ((Hugs)) to you. 

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

     BFP 1/23/13; US 1/28/13 Perfect Peanut @ 7w! So in love!; 2/23/13 Peanut Says Goodbye; 2/24/13 Natural MC at 11w

    BFP #2: 10/5/2013; EDD 6/11/2014

     

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board.  (((HUGS)))

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    TTC since March 2012 
    BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13 
    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
  • I'm so sorry for the loss of your twins. Welcome to the board.
    Me: 36 yo, TTC #1 since Feb. 2012
    BFP #1, 3/12, EDD 11/9/12, MMC 3/27/12, D&C 4/10/12

    BFP #2: 11/16/12, EDD 7/25/13, MMC 12/5/12, D&C 12/6/12, Complete molar pregnancy confirmed 2/9/13, benched for 6 months until  August 2013

    IUI #1, 8/16/13 Femara + Menopur, 3 mature follicles, BFN
    IUI #2 (back-to-back, 9/12/13 and 9/13/13) Femara + Menopur, four mature follicles, BFFN
    IUI #3, 10/8/13 Femara + Menopur, six mature follicles, BFN

    BFP #3, 12/9/2013, while on treatment break, EDD: 8/22/2014  Please stick and grow, LO!

    Additional Dx: hypothyroidism, TgAb positive & anti-TPO positive, POR/DOR (2/2013), and suspected endometriosis

    ******All AL always welcome******
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.


     
     
     
     
  • I am so sorry for your loss and welcome to the board.

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  • So sorry for your loss . (((HUGS)))
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