So since I really didn't want to have to put Rocky put down. I went to our vet and he won't do anything for an anxious/aggressive dog other than recommend more obedience training. I called a few others and they were all "well he isn't our usual patient so you will have to pay a new patient charge in addition to the evaluation. But if he bit someone and drew blood he should probably just be put down anyway' which really bothered me as advise, but it was prolly just the receptionists, and I live in horse country and most vets specialize in horses and many only treat horses...
Anyway, I decided to make a list of everything that has happened in the last month with the dogs, and I noticed that in their mid day exercise sessions Teka has been steeling our fetch stick and hiding it under the house cutting them a little short(only about 10 - 15 minutes) cause Rocky won't go take it from her and I can't. So we have decided that we are going to lock her in the house when Rocky is getting his exercise and let her out play with them together and then just give her a ton of attention sine that is all she ever really wants anyway. We are also planning on adding another lap around the block to his nightly walks(would do it for both but I don't think I could handle it and, as of right now he is way to much of a handful he needs one on one walks.
We are going to give this 4 weeks and if we see an improvement continue, but if we don't and can't find anyone willing to take him we will have to put him down. Because, the twins are so young, until he calms down we are going to keep him exclusively outside which will not bother him. I usually fight him to get him inside(we live on an acre of land that is fully fenced in, and there is plenty of shade and they have access in and out via a rather large doggie door on our shed which has an A/C unit in it, it is set to 77 which is warmer than the house but still comfortable).
Re: Update: on we have to put one of our dogs down.
Me 26, Hubs 32
Married 7.14.12
DS 10.29.13
BFP 06.20.16
BFP #2 11/4/12 EDD 7/20/12 missed M/C 12/13/12 @8w5d D&C 12/21/12
DX 2/7/13 with an alloimmunity + for anti-paternal antibodies started Lovenox daily & BA
BFP 2/16/13 EDD 10/28/13
I totally agree! I'm referencing the other post where it was stated that all dogs need to be in the house/close to their pack and again above where two people stated that dogs should not live outside. Broad sweeping, blanket statements are not necessary. We have happy, healthy, well treated dogs and in no way are they abused by living outside.
Those are working dogs, completely different. And like I stated maybe on the 1st thread, it also depends on the breed and personality of the dog. Some can thrive like tgat. Me personally, I wouldn't keep my dogs (which are strictly fur babies) outside. But when you try to get your dogs to come inside where there are children who pick on them... I'd stay outside as well. That's pretty cruel.
It takes a minimum of an hour a night to go over his training and it includes simple things like having him sit while we put his food in his dish, and not releasing him to eat until we say so. The reason we do this is because he gets aggressive about his food whenever the other dog or the cats are in the same room, let alone walking by him, so if he growls or snarls, he does not get his food then because he needs to learn that we are in charge and that behaviour is unacceptable.
He also had a huge problem with possession of his toys and when we brought the new puppy into the house it became very apparent that that needed to be stopped right away. We've only had the new puppy for 2 months and guess what? No more problems with his toys, he shares them with the puppy and everything, but it took a lot of strict work.
I'm sorry to say, but to me it sounds like there is not enough time going into training this dog, or the training that is being done is not the correct type needed.
As for your twins, you need to teach them to leave the dogs alone and to treat the dogs with respect. I'd hate to hear that one of your kids decided to pull the dogs tail and end up bitten because they didn't know any better.
ETA: And just for reference, our German Shepherd thought he was the Alpha when we brought him home, but we broke him of that notion really freaking quickly.
BFP #1 09/15/09, MMC 09/28/09

BFP #2 06/04/12, EDD 02/09/13, MC at 6w3d on 06/18/12
BFP #3 01/16/13, EDD 10/04/13, Born 09/17/13
BFP #1 09/15/09, MMC 09/28/09

BFP #2 06/04/12, EDD 02/09/13, MC at 6w3d on 06/18/12
BFP #3 01/16/13, EDD 10/04/13, Born 09/17/13
Check out https://www.cesarsway.com/ and search around the site. He has some fantastic information on dealing with various training and behaviour issues, most of which you or your husband should be able to do yourselves.
BFP #1 09/15/09, MMC 09/28/09

BFP #2 06/04/12, EDD 02/09/13, MC at 6w3d on 06/18/12
BFP #3 01/16/13, EDD 10/04/13, Born 09/17/13
BFP #1 09/15/09, MMC 09/28/09

BFP #2 06/04/12, EDD 02/09/13, MC at 6w3d on 06/18/12
BFP #3 01/16/13, EDD 10/04/13, Born 09/17/13