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No good, very bad day...

tamarar5tamarar5 member
in February 2013 Moms

Tonight found me running away from my family for over an hour (DH knew where I was) and crying in the bathtub as I waited for the day to end.  Too much actually happened, but to summarize, we've still been fighting behavior and obnoxiousness from our older DD and after a horrible outing this afternoon and subsequent punishment for said deplorable behavior, she shouted at the top of her lungs, "I hate you, I want to live with grandma forever!" Over and over and over.

I swear to God, I worked with IDIOTS at my previous place of employment, idiots who made it their sole mission in life to torment me and make me feel like I was the stupidest, most worthless person on the planet, and my daughter can do better than them with her hands behind her back.  Honestly, I do not know where I went wrong, or what I did, but I have the worlds most spoiled child.  And she hates me.

And she makes ME hate me. Gah. 

Don't get me wrong, I love being a SAHM but there are just some days when I wish I could jump in the car and keep driving until I run out of gas.

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  • tiffanyptiffanyp member
    ((hugs)) I'm sorry you're having such a rough time. We're all just doing the best we can, so try not to beat yourself up too much. I hope she's just going through a bad phase and you will be friends again. When did the behavior problems start?
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  • Drea926Drea926 member
    I'm so sorry. :-( How old is your DD? I'm sure it's just a phase...a horrible one...but a phase!

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  • emd886emd886 member
    It's ok! She does not hate you. Little kids do not always have the words to let out their feelings of anger or disappointment. They also don't realize what effect their words can have yet. She loves you and you should love you. It will be ok!
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  • kleigh926kleigh926 member
    I just read the other day that if your child does not tell you she/he hates you at least once, you're doing something wrong. I know I told my mom I hated her (or something like it) multiple times when I was growing up, and now we have a GREAT relationship. I'm sorry you're having such a rough time :( I hope things get better soon!
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  • bobcatstephbobcatsteph member
    I'm sorry. My daughter is 4 and just this weekend she told my husband that she wishes that he would have never met me and she's tired of us bossing her around and she wants new parents. I'm afraid of what the future holds.

    I don't think it's abnormal for girls especially to act like this. Hopefully once she has kids she will realize that you meant well with everything you did.
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