DD finally was fully trained a couple of months ago. We've had some set backs, but that was to be expected. I kept it positive, all was good and seemed to be improving. It was going really good. I used up the last of the pull ups last week. This past two weeks however, it's been absolutely miserable.
I had a three day weekend with her. She maybe went on the potty 4 times fine with little or no issues. Friday she had only one accident at the park, but the whole day while out and about in public and a total of 4 hours in the car, she was great. Saturday and Sunday, she successfully went on the potty once. Once! And only one bowel movement - on Friday.
Monday night she had to go. She was grabbing her butt and upset because she wanted to go, but was scared. I knew she was constipated. I've been treating her with Miralax since that night to help her out and I'm changing up her diet with more fiber. She finally went for me when I put her in the tub to relax. She went in the tub. Holy cow what a load. I'm just glad she went.
Ever since this weekend she has been throwing tantrums and acting scared of the potty. I think it might because she's constipated and it hurts, but even just peeing, she gets worked up. And apparently it's just for me. She isn't throwing fits at daycare, but she's holding her pee and refusing to go. She's had one accident a day there, and she always does at night at home.
Tonite, she hadn't gone since 2:30 and she refused to go at 4 at daycare. I tried every 30 minutes and she threw a complete fit when I asked. Finally I bribed her at 6:30 and she went pee, but not before throwing a holy fit, even with the promise of watching dinosaurs on my ipad.
I held back all my frustration tonite, but it was so hard by Sunday night.
I am at a loss. Maybe I need to ride this out until her stool softens and she's not scared to go anymore, but holy crap the tantrums are frustrating and confusing me. Maybe it's because she knows I'll back off if she gets furious with me? I tried to be firm and not give in, but when she's crying and screaming bloody murder that she's hiccupping and crying...that's just pushing it too far I think. We got to that point a couple of times.
XH is no help. He acts like he has absolutely no problems, short of a couple bed wets.
Any advice?
Re: NBFR - Potty training issues again. Tantrums.
I decided this morning when she pooped her pants and peed on my area rug again - that I think I'm just going to throw out when I move - that it's time I go buy another box of pull ups, take a step back, take a deep breath and sort of start over again.
She also wet her bed last night too.
She's holding both. She goes better for my provider, but she is holding it at her house too. And DD is really resisting me. I don't know if I'll get her to sit every ten like Paige when she is throwing a holy caniption and refuses to even sit.
XH has her this weekend. Let's see how well he and the girlfriend do. Then Labor Day weekend, I'll see if can't help her re-train.
At this rate, it feels like it won't be until high school, but I'm sure it will get better.
Thanks ladies!