My craptastic Monday

tondraluv · August 2013

I'm sorry to bitch but I just need to get this out. I want to choke the shit out of MH because his job terminated LO's medical coverage because MH neglected to fill out a dependent verification form that they'd been asking him for. I found a loop hole and hopefully will be able to fix this soon. My car also started smoking, and I forgot my pump supplies at home today so my boobs are swollen. I just want to helicopter swing punch someone right now.

wendalsue · August 2013

What about pissy hands? Is she still a problem at work? I know she was a real PITA when you were pregnant!

lilbit0910 · August 2013

hope it gets better

i'm feeling pretty down myself

tondraluv · August 2013

@wendalsue I knew you would remember her!!!!!!!!! She is still a PITA, the other day she told me she loves her son more than I love mine. If you recall she is the one that put chili pepper up her sons butt to teach him not to pee on himself while potty trainning. I told her to go have a seat [-X

@lilbit0910 whats wrong? I feel like I need to go get "chocolate wasted" my damn self ON PURPOSE

Kate_C · August 2013

Yeah... Kudos to you for not pummeling your husband. I would be livid. We just got the EOB for the first round of vaccines and it was like $2000. That would be a hella expensive oops to be without coverage the first year.

You should get chocolate wasted- either on real chocolate or booze. Or have a chocolate martini and kill two birds with one stone!

NativeFloridian · August 2013

tondraluv said:

@wendalsue I knew you would remember her!!!!!!!!! She is still a PITA, the other day she told me she loves her son more than I love mine. If you recall she is the one that put chili pepper up her sons butt to teach him not to pee on himself while potty trainning. I told her to go have a seat [-X

You have GOT to be shitting me.

Also, your H should get a dick punch for that. It's important, and he just...didn't do it?

Sorry you're having such a crap day, mama. Hope it gets better from here!

lilbit0910 · August 2013

@tondraluv I just feel unloved

... i know right now the most important thing is DD by i dont feel significant anymore. Maybe it's just my hormones acting up again lol.

i did hang for a few with my friends on Friday. Felt good to have a couple of drinks. But then i missed Rylee so much i picked her up super early in the morning from her grandmas house LOL

tondraluv · August 2013

@NativeFloridian He said he saw the notice once then just forgot about it. I'll get him though, i'm going to go pawn his Xbox tomorrow & pay for an individual policy for LO! I know the cost of the Xbox won't even come close to a policy because I work in insurance & have already quoted it but that's not the point, it's the principal. I'm sure he has no problem remembering when Madden is coming out or the next console.

JSS1002 · August 2013

OMG I want to choke the shit out of him too. I'm so sorry.

JBDamonM · August 2013

Oh dear god - I would KILL, KILL, KILL my husband. I'm sorry

NativeFloridian · August 2013

tondraluv said:

@NativeFloridian He said he saw the notice once then just forgot about it. I'll get him though, i'm going to go pawn his Xbox tomorrow & pay for an individual policy for LO! I know the cost of the Xbox won't even come close to a policy because I work in insurance & have already quoted it but that's not the point, it's the principal. I'm sure he has no problem remembering when Madden is coming out or the next console.

@tondraluv That'll probably piss him off pretty good, but maybe he'll also make LO a priority next time something like this comes up.

minerswife17 · August 2013

How long did his company allow him to turn the form in? DHs company gave him 10 days to return the form for DD. Then 30 to bring in her SS card and birth certificate. He met the deadline for it all, but the insurance co. wanted to give him fits and not cover her. All they needed was a not so pleasant phone call and a new hole and they got it all figured out. GL!

Lhyacinth888 · August 2013

My DH also neglected to get my DD on our insurance (through his work) in a timely fashion. Thank goodness he is good friends with the HR lady for his district and she pulled a favor for him and got her on. It's still such a pain in the butt to resubmit the charges (for ins) and have people sending us collection notices saying we owe a crap load of money. Annoying!

Sounds like you had a bad day. Hope it gets better. My boobs would have exploded if I were you.

tondraluv · August 2013

He works for Best Buy & they allowed him 30 days to return everything. On the plus side I called again & spoke to the Benefits Verification department just now & told them that I never received it (which is technically true) & they saw in their system that from May 19th-June 2nd the letter was returned back to them with no forwarding address. They are going to send it again to ME but they can't guarantee LO will be covered. MH's Open Enrollment is in October so if all else fails i'll buy DS an individual policy until then. The average with every carrier I quoted was $360 a month for a PPO.

JSS1002 · August 2013

this is why I am glad that I hold the benefits for our family. I would be the naggiest nag in all the land if I had to rely on somebody else to do this.

TexasAggie06 · August 2013

tondraluv said:

I feel like I need to go get "chocolate wasted" my damn self ON PURPOSE

I'm not 100% I know what you mean by "chocolate wasted" but it made me think about how much I'd love to have some chocolate. Unfortunately we're dairy free... *exaggerated sigh*.

Sorry you had a craptastic Monday. I hope the insurance debacle works out for you!

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