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annagryaannagrya member
edited August 2013 in May 2013 Moms
So after dh and I did the deed, I look over at lo in her swing in our room, who I thought was asleep. Guess who was NOT asleep?! I'm hoping she's not scarred for life! If your lo is cosleeping what do you do?
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  • snowgirl427snowgirl427 member
    LO will just be there. He won't remember anyway lol.

    I say will because we still haven't dtd. We don't have condoms and my mirena needs 1 more week before I can trust it. Ugh!

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  • Angela183Angela183 member
    It was probably more traumatizing to you than LO.

     

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  • RoxZ32RoxZ32 member
    We haven't made a big deal about this since we know she doesn't understand and will never remember. And if I feel like she's super alert then we just turn the lights off!

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  • c-elizabethfc-elizabethf member
    RoxZ32 said:

    linegirl313 said:

    Like a PP said, I'm sure it bothered you more than your LO!

    Does anyone remember an episode of Friends that dealt with this?  I think Monica and Chandler did it with Emma in the room because Monica was ovulating.

    lol I just watched this episode the other day. They left Emma in the family room while they did it in the bedroom and Joey came over and took Emma and scolded them. You can't have S-E-X in front of the B-A-B-I-E!


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    We have done the deed while she is in her pack n play. I felt really weird about it but DH reminded me that she won't remember.
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  • ordinary1ordinary1 member
    edited August 2013
    I feel awkward having A in our room so we put her in her swing or crib. We are transitioning her out of bed sharing. She sleeps with me in the morning and it feels wrong dtd knowing she still sleeps in here. We lay down a blanket on our bed. I know I'm a little weird though.
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  • jackersCUjackersCU member
    We put DD in the pack and play (at the foot of the bed) and try to be quiet. Sometimes she's awake playing in there and sometimes she's sleeping. She can't see us and we can't see her, so it kind of helps me.
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  • Mommy2CBMommy2CB member
    our DS2 sleeps in his swing but the swing is out in the living room. I don't think I could DTD with him in the room, it would be really weird. He totally wouldn't remember or get what was happening but it would bother me!

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    Mommy2CB said:
    our DS2 sleeps in his swing but the swing is out in the living room. I don't think I could DTD with him in the room, it would be really weird. He totally wouldn't remember or get what was happening but it would bother me!
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  • Schell2013Schell2013 member
    infinitemomnt said:

    Sex? What's that?

    Lol this was my thought exactly, glad I'm not the only one. I could for sure count on no more than both hands since LO was born. She is almost 4 months...

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    beckyschell said:

    infinitemomnt said:

    Sex? What's that?

    Lol this was my thought exactly, glad I'm not the only one. I could for sure count on no more than both hands since LO was born. She is almost 4 months...

    Umm... We are still at 0. Hope this changes next week now that my mirena is in!

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    2010Bride2be said:


    LaurenJeff10 said:


    infinitemomnt said:

    snowgirl427 said:

    beckyschell said:

    infinitemomnt said:

    Sex? What's that?

    Lol this was my thought exactly, glad I'm not the only one. I could for sure count on no more than both hands since LO was born. She is almost 4 months...

    Umm... We are still at 0. Hope this changes next week now that my mirena is in!
    Yeah. We are still at zero too. And it's not happening any time in the near future. :/



    Yeah, right there with you.

    Add me to this club. DH and I planned on having sex on Saturday. That didn't work out bc LO had other plans. Soooooooo....we have the protection ready to go...just need to find the time. Poor DH. I couldn't care less, personally.,,


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  • bhjones1980bhjones1980 member
    We've only done it a few times, but once was in the living room, LO was in his jumperoo facing away from us... it was so weird since his back was to us the whole time and he was just playing away like nothing was going on.

    it creeped me out.
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    2010Bride2be said:


    LaurenJeff10 said:


    infinitemomnt said:

    snowgirl427 said:

    beckyschell said:

    infinitemomnt said:

    Sex? What's that?

    Lol this was my thought exactly, glad I'm not the only one. I could for sure count on no more than both hands since LO was born. She is almost 4 months...

    Umm... We are still at 0. Hope this changes next week now that my mirena is in!
    Yeah. We are still at zero too. And it's not happening any time in the near future. :/



    Yeah, right there with you.

    Add me to this club. DH and I planned on having sex on Saturday. That didn't work out bc LO had other plans. Soooooooo....we have the protection ready to go...just need to find the time. Poor DH. I couldn't care less, personally.,,


    This is kind of me too... Although sometimes it would be nice when its MOTN and I can't go back to sleep after a feeding. I also wonder if DH would be less cranky.

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