Secondary IF

I need advice - What do you suggest?

Okay- I am doing timed intercourse. I'm using OPKs. I'm been using the new Clearblue digital advanced. They give you a blinking smiley face on high days and a non-blinkey one on your peak days. Well I've been testing (to the detriment of my wallet) 2x a day to catch my surge early...I caught it on Thursday - we DTD. Just now I've been shopping and thought was crampy - low and behold I come home test again and another positive surge!! Wth?

It's like I'm gearing up to O and then don't??!

This is the second month we've done this and I catch it probably too late :(

What do I do?
Give clearblue hell?
Does or has anyone charted fertility by cervical position?
I dropped the ball on the temping...

Not to mention i get over a weeks worth of high readings!

I've probably missed out this month again :( because we thought we were done and didn't do the dance with no pants last night.
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Me: 27 DH: 33
Married 6 years
Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
No longer benched per New RE/OB!
Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
March 2, 2014 First AF


Re: I need advice - What do you suggest?

  • You probably caught on upsurge and today was O and cramp was mittleshmirtz -and caught lh on down surge. My lh surge is about three days. Really once you get that happy face, testing isn't recommended and O is 24-36 hours later. We seem to be on same schedule, I got positive in Thursday and had cramps and o pain today. Sounds like your timing was good! Could bd tonight, egg lives about a day so couldn't hurt to try!!! :)
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
    image

    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image
    imageimage Potato Love!

    BabyFruit Ticker


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  • Lmbo, dance w no pants!!!
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
    image

    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image
    imageimage Potato Love!

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    edited August 2013
    You should start charting with Fertilityfriend.com next cycle if this isn't your cycle. Charting is the only way to know for sure if you're actually ovulating and not just "gearing up to O" 

    Also Amazon sells cheap ovulation tests 

    I would use the cheapies, and then confirm your + with the fancy CB.

    Good luck!! 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • You're right I need to buy the cheapies. Heck, they probably work better anyway!!

    And I will try temping again. I'm bad for getting up in the morning and walking around like a half asleep zombie then realizing OH CRAP my temperature! lol.
    image

    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


  • lol KC I do that sometimes and I've been temping for almost 2 years. We all have our moments  8-}

    It does get easier after a while, it becomes a habit, then you don't have to wonder what's really going on. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



    BabyFruit Ticker
  • I got the Babi ones off Amazon, like 100 ovulation strips and 20 pregnancy strips for like $20-30. Six months still have enough for several more months testing twice a day!
    Anyone can recommend a night lot thermometer that doesn't beep? We still cosleep and she is light sleeper so this is my big reason for not temping!
    January 2007- Stop BCP! Let's DO this!
    June 2010- MFI. BS. IVF! Ectopic. BS. image

    November 2010- FAILED FET! BS!
    January 2011- BFP FET! TWINS!
    February 2011- lost twin. BS. image

    SEPTEMBER 2011- DD Born! Most awesome girl in the world!

    November 2013- FAILED FET! BS! (screw you November FETs)
    April Fresh Cycle, FAILED. Frozen embryos frozen for future FETs.
    FROZEN CYCLE JUNE! BFP
    BABY BOY VINCENT!
    image

    We can't wait to meet you!
    Conception:image
    imageimage Potato Love!

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • Hi! I used the CB Advanced one last month. I remember in the instructions it said that if you get a positive peak fertility you cannot use it any more. You have to get a new box in order to continue testing. I just purchased a new CB (non-Advanced) one. I am hoping it works this month. I am also tempting and charting every morning so I am very confident that it can work this time. I would buy the regular CB Easy Regular Fertility Indicator. You can test two times a day and keep testing even after you get your high fertility smiley. Good luck. I wish you the best!
  • Thank you :) I like the non advanced one better too. The advanced on is geared to give you extra days but honestly what good is that info if we have like 10 high days a low day and then a peak?

    I just want to know when my surge is. I've had a hard time finding the non advanced one (other than on the Internet) I wonder if they are phasing them out? I bought, to the detriment of my wallet, First response digital OPKs but they are outrageous and I'm thinking of returning them and just ordering some wondfos
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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