So recently I switched from breastfeeding to formula because
unfortunately I am one of those moms who just can't produce enough for
their babies. I'm trying really really hard to go on with my days happy
and not beat myself up about it (because I wanted to stay dedicated to
bf'ing so badly) but these past couple of days have been really hard. My
son is really constipated. The past I don't know 1 or 2 poops he's had
they were really hard and dark green. And today he's been pushing and
straining since early this morning. This never really happens to him at
night. He usually will eat 3-4 oz and then go to sleep. It's just ever
really during the day. And I'm sitting here feeling terrible because
when I was BF his belly seemed fine, his poops were yellowish and seedy
like they were supposed to be. I'm really depressed about having to give
him formula. I feel like right now I'm failing his little system and
I'm failing him as a mom. It's breaking my heart.
Anyway this
isn't about me. I'm worried about my son. He's six weeks old. When I put
my ear up to his belly I hear bubbling and gurgling. I've tried giving
him gas drops but those work only sometimes. I called his Pedi and they
told me to try Prune, Apple, or Pear juice. None of which I have.
I'm going to try and give him some breastmilk that I had pumped and put in the fridge to see if that helps move things along.
Side
note: I am pumping, but the more I pump the less comes out. When I
first started just strictly pumping I was doing it every 2 hours but in a
24 hour period I was only getting about 3-4 oz. Still being on that
same routine. I'm getting an ounce now... Maybe two. I hate myself for
it but I have tried everything from Mother's Milk Tea to taking an
obnoxious amount of Fenugreek. Nothing is helping. What can I do to help
my son poop better?
Sorry this was a little longer than I had planned it to be.
Also posted in July 2013
Re: My son is constipated. Help? (longish)
Regarding BFing, don't be so hard on yourself! You are NOT failing him. Failing him would be selfishly sticking with something that didnt work. You are making sure your child is fed, and that is most important. Chin up, mama! You're doing great!