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Mistake!!!?????

25meshia25meshia member
in March 2014 Moms
Hi ladies ,

Does anyone feel that you made a mistake getting pregnant by the person you are currently with?
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Re: Mistake!!!?????

  • SomersIslesSomersIsles member
    No definitely not... Seems like you may be in a tough situation... :(
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  • 25meshia25meshia member
    :( I feel like I am
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  • nickelbridenickelbride member
    What's going on 25meshia?  I can't say that I know how you feel, but DH and I have certainly had our share of trying situations.  I know that pregnancy can bring up a zillion different emotions, I hope ya'll work out whatever is going on.  
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  • Hrose7091Hrose7091 member
    Well, I do think deciding to start a family is a huge decision and shouldn't be taken lightly or with someone who may not be as committed as you are.. That being said, I was not married when I got pregnant and I doubted our relationship at times but we stuck it out, are married now and he's a wonderful father!
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  • angelsnightangelsnight member
    nickelbride said:
    What's going on 25meshia?  I can't say that I know how you feel, but DH and I have certainly had our share of trying situations.  I know that pregnancy can bring up a zillion different emotions, I hope ya'll work out whatever is going on.  
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  • ClementineRoseClementineRose
    I got pregnant my first cycle with my boyfriend. Basically, I wasn't on birth control because it messes with my BP... I wasn't sexually active for a long time so it didn't matter. Until first cycle with new boyfriend.

    I feel you entirely. I like him but this is a bit more than I bargained for.. Woah. Let me know if you ever want to talk. :)
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  • CharlestonValCharlestonVal member
    Babies are always a blessing. Your life will never be the same, and in the best ways. Nobody is perfect, and while you may not be able to control actions of the baby's father....you can still be the best mom you can be and that will make ALL the difference. This baby will bring you more joy than you can imagine. I'm sorry you're going through your doubts. Having a baby is scary no matter your relationship situation. Hang in there. Do you have a good family and friends support system?
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  • Alishapower77Alishapower77 member
    I got pregnant from a guy who I was seeing/kinda dating. It was a huge surprise. I was really sick the month before and the doctors didn't tell me that antibiotics could screw up BC. So long story short here Iam almost 8.5 weeks PG doing it on my own for the second time round. Just keep in mind everything happens for a reason.
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  • ClementineRoseClementineRose
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    Truer words could not be spoken.

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  • ClementineRoseClementineRose
    Ugh, the quote is missing :(

    "This baby will bring you more joy than you can imagine."

    Women do it alone all the time. They do it with significant others too... But no matter what end you lie on, the most important part is YOUR attitude about it. Do what you need to relationship wise, but embrace your baby because you will NEVER feel a love as strong as the one for your baby. She (or he) will make you smile every day. You will feel proud and in awe of what you created. And all of that is with or without your current relationship. :)
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  • amandoza23amandoza23 member
    Nope, DH and I have been TTC since January and we couldn't be happier. I hope things get better though, I don't know how I would get through it if DH wasn't as supportive as he is.
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  • Kaydfry2411Kaydfry2411 member
    I do sometimes, and I am married and this is our second child. I just don't always feel like we are on the same page! :(
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  • 25meshia25meshia member
    Kaydfry2411 said:

    I do sometimes, and I am married and this is our second child. I just don't always feel like we are on the same page! :(

    I feel as if we are never on the same page! I have a daughter, I know how it is to be a single mother & I never planned being a single mother to TWO!!!!!!!
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  • emilyockwigemilyockwig member
    My husband did this once, but his son is definitely not unwanted or unloved. He's a wonderful preteen now.

    My advice, is if you split with your baby daddy, no matter what happens, you need to try your hardest stay on good terms with him. You will be stuck with him for a loooooooong time.

    Not all parents are meant to stay together. But you will spend the rest of your life coparenting with this fellow and it really is best for the kids if both parents can get along. (How MUCH we get along varies on the day... ;) )

    Good luck!
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