March 2012 Moms

Break my heart

Usually dd is one of the last kiddos in her class to get picked up. When I walk in she drops what she is doing and runs to give me a big hug. Yesterday, I picked up dd early. When I came in her room she barely acknowledged me and when I tried to pick her up she started screaming and wiggling back and forth to try to get down. I'm glad she likes daycare that much but it sure broke my heart.
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BFP #2 7/18/11 - EDD 3/29/12 - Born 3/13/12
BFP #1 4/4/11 - Natural M/C - 7w1d - 4/30/11
Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


Re: Break my heart

  • If it makes you feel any better I am a SAHM and DD does this all the time with her aunts and grandparents. I get so frustrated that she doesn't prefer me but when she sees them she gets so excited and just wants them to hold her and whines when I take her away -"Noooo" she cries. Then I remember that I handle her all day and appreciate the opportunity to eat without a toddler on my lap.
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  • Nicb13 said:

    DS did sort of the same thing recently when I picked him up from the sitter's house. She was holding him when I got there and he absolutely did not want to come to me. He was smacking at me, screaming and clinging to the sitter. I finally got ahold of him and tried to put him in the car but he was inconsolable and hitting me. Once I buckled him in, I sat in the car and cried! It is heartbreaking and I didn't mean to take over your post but this just happened last week and I still remember how sad I felt.

    Not taking over at all!  I think I am having a hard time with her growing up and becoming independent.
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    BFP #2 7/18/11 - EDD 3/29/12 - Born 3/13/12
    BFP #1 4/4/11 - Natural M/C - 7w1d - 4/30/11
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


  • I hate it when grandma has DD and when it's time to go (even if grandma only stopped over for a 10 minute visit), DD just wants to stay with grandma--or even go home with grandma. She shakes her head "no" and grips onto grandma like nothing else, refusing to come to me. It's so sad. I want her to like other people and let them care for her, but when I get back, I want her to have missed me and come right to me willingly. It's a fight sometimes!
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