so...my ILs do mean well but sometimes they are so clueless I want to scream. They came over last night to see the new baby and bring us dinner. "Bringing" us dinner turned out to be them bringing a pan of lasagna and then expecting to eat with us and for us to provide sides, drinks, etc. to go with this meal. I ended up serving them the dinner that was supposed to be a helpful meal FOR us. I had to throw together a salad, serve up the meal and then DH and I spent 30 minutes cleaning up the mess after they left.They simply got up from the table and left the mess for us. I also now have to wash the glass pan that they brought the meal in and get it back to her this weekend because she wants it back ASAP.
Also, I almost had to pry LO out of MIL's arms because she was crying to be fed and MIL denied that her cries were for hunger and kept trying to shove a pacifier in her mouth. It took every ounce of willpower I have not to rip her from MIL's arms. WTF
Re: Thanks for the help ILs?
BFP #1 mm/c at 12w1d
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Married 3-1-08 | Nathan 11-24-08 | Kaelyn 11-30-10 | Alicia 8-17-13
BFP #1 mm/c at 12w1d
BFP #1 mm/c at 12w1d
Then when she found time to come out at 7:45 am... She ended up coming two hours late without telling me.
Inlaw's can really suck sometimes..
DD2 8.22.13
MMC 1.4.17 at 16w
Expecting #3, EDD 1.29.18
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My IL bitch is that mil and DH's aunts drop by the other day with 5 minutes notice and proceed to get mad when I don't greet them at the door because I'm nursing. Smh...
My MIL was the same with DH until he went into the military at 27, and thank God for that. It's SO annoying and took him years of ME teaching him for him to learn to be self sufficient. Ugh!!