Trouble TTC

Intro

Hi, I'm new here and would love some support! Some days I feel like TTC takes over my life- it's all I can think about. I am 36, DH is 39; we have a beautiful little girl born 07/11. It took us 8 months to get pregnant that go around, but no major (known) problems and no infertility treatments needed. Fast forward 2 years and we are 10 months in to TTC #2. I am not ovulating on my own, therefor have super long cycles. I just saw an RE and completed more bloodwork; bloodwork and SA for DH; and I'll get an HSG after I get my period again. DH's SA came back today; 'fantastic' results on all areas except morphology at 3%. The nurse seemed hopeful, but I'm not sure how much to read into that? Once I get my period again (on my own or Provera), we are going the clomid route. Hopefully that's all my body needs?! Not sure if we'll try TI or IUI? The very frustrating part of all of this is that my husband keeps changing his mind: No- he doesn't want another baby or Yes, he's just going along with it because it is what I want. I feel like I have a small window of opportunity before he changes his mind for good (which seems to be narrowing in around his 40th birthday) if clomid doesn't work, I might be able to convince him to try IUI, but we have agreed we are not going to IVF. Excited, trying to be positive with our plan of action! But too scared to think about how I will feel if we cannot have another baby... Thanks! Feels better just to get that off my chest!

 

Re: Intro

  • Welcome to the board, and good luck moving forward!
    CafeMom Tickers
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    TTC since July 2011
    BFP #1: 2/15/12-Ectopic/Mtx at 6 wks

    BFP #2: 10/12/12-m/c at 5 wks. 
    BFP #3: 8/27/13
    Me: MTHFR, Low AMH (1.1), High NK cells and Antiphospholipid Antibodies.
    DH:MFI-Low morph (1%), DNA fragmentation: Excellent!
    5 rounds of clomid, 3 IUIs, and multiple non-medicated cycles- BFFN                                                      
    IVF with ICSI in August 2013 brought us our babies.  ER-9R, 7M, 4F w/ICSI  ET of 2-Grade 2 blasts. 
    + HPT at 6dp5dt. #1 (8dp5dt)- 105    #2 (13dp5dt)- 510  #3 (15dp5dt)- 960  #4 (17dp5dt)- 1889
    Dx shortened cervix, PTL, and preeclampsia during pregnancy.  Lots of medications and 13 weeks of bedrest, babies were born healthy at 34w4d!


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  • I'm sorry you have to be here, but welcome to the board. It sounds like you're well prepared and have a good plan in place!
    Pregnancy Ticker

    TTC #1 since June 2012
    Me (28) - DOR (AFC <10, undetectable AMH, >10 FSH), homozygous E429A MTHFR
    DH (29) - MFI low count and morphology

    September 2013 IUI#1 - Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN
    October 2013 IUI#2 - Letrozole + Menopur + Trigger + IUI = BFN

    Nov 2013 IVF/ICSI #1 - Protocol: BCP prep, high doses Menopur and Bravelle (12 days), ganirelex
    Results: 5 retrieved / mature, 4 fertilized, 1 arrested and 3 complex abnormal after day 3 PGS = Cancelled after ER
    Jan/Feb 2014 IVF/ICSI #2 - Protocol: Estrogen priming, high doses Menopur and Bravelle (11 days), microdose lupron
    Results: Cancelled after 11 days of stims due to low response and E2 levels
    Feb 2014 IVF/ICSI #3 - Protocol: No prep, low dose Menopur (6 days), ganirelex, Bravelle booster with trigger
    Results: 1 retrieved / 0 mature = Cancelled after ER

    Officially moving on to embryo adoption! We used and love Embryo Adoption Services of Cedar Park
    October 2014 FET #1 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, transferred 2 of 4 from match #1, BFN
    December 2014 FET #2 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, transferred 2 of 4 from match #1, BFN
    March 2015 FET #3 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, transferred 2 of 6 from match #2, BFN
    May 2015 FET #4 - BCP/Lupron/Estrace/Prometrium, lost 2 to thaw, transferred 2 of 6 from match #2, BFN
    October 2015 FET #5 - Natural cycle, lost 1 from match #3 and 1 from clinic backup to thaw, transferred 1 backup, BFN
    February 2016 FET #6 - Natural cycle, transferred 1 from match #4, B FREAKING P!
    Beta 1 = 162, Beta 2 = 316, doubling just over 48 hours

     

  • Sorry for the mistake; posters on the Secondary Infertility board seem to be in later stages of advanced treatment, so I thought I had more in common with posters on this board.

     

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