Might be doing this alone

Re: Might be doing this alone

• pbandjmom member

  August 2013

  Well, you've got to tell him eventually, right? Just be prepared for any sort of reaction, from excitement, to disbelief, to anger, to joy.

  

  
  

  

  DD on a recent trip to London. 3 yrs old.

  EDD 4/7/18

  MC 5/20/17 @8 wks

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• Enami member

  August 2013

  It will be ok. DS was a pill baby, as in, the pill didn't work. I told my then fiance, now husband (aka: that asshat I'm currently fighting with), over the phone and we spent the first few weeks arguing about abortions. I decided I was not having an abortion, and he could either get on board or get the hell out of my life. He chose to stay, but I'm not going to lie, I supported us for a year and a half while he took his leisurely time growing up. Make the call for you, give him the option, then go from there. I've been there, PM if you want to.
  

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• Makenzie16 member

  August 2013

  I was in the same boat. After dating for three years I found out im pregnant a few weeks ago. My babys dad wanted an abortion and I refused. I became very tired of him pushing it on me so I left. No matter what your baby's dads reaction is, remember you will be okay either way. And the little one!

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• MamaFantastic member

  August 2013

  single ladies...  i support you in your decision to "go it alone" but i do hope you will all hold your partners/former partners responsible for the babies they helped make!  even with no involvement emotionally, they still owe you child support.  stay strong, mamas!

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• TMVG member

  August 2013

  Nicki2525Enami Makenzie16 for sticking up for your baby!
  
  I hope you all have family and friend support and you know you have support here
  

  

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