Just starting to look up some classes that I might need/want to take and I'm curious as to what you are all doing or have done in the past. I was looking at CPR, Breastfeeding, Newborn Essentials and Prepared Childbirth, but if I want to take all of them, its going to cost a small fortune (close to $800)!
Are they all necessary, must take classes?
Are some more important than others?
What are you doing or what did you do in the past?
Missing Our July Sparkler
BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron
Re: Baby Classes yes or no?
So, this is from a third time mom.
We did take the "new beginnings" class when I was pregnant with #1, which was more of a childbirth/basic baby care class, and honestly could have taken or left it. I felt like I learned much more from the L&D nurses while recovering after the birth (hands on, aplicable to what I needed to know). I was also going to take a breastfeeding class, but cound not make the schedule work. If I were you, I'd read a book or watch some general videos on breastfeeding and save the money to hire a lactation consutant (if it is not already covered by your insurance company under the new Affordable Care Act legislation) when the time comes--that hands on, real time help was super helpful to me. GL!
Will baby #3 be another girl?
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Missing Our July Sparkler
BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron
Ok, so I'm a bit of a moron and didn't read the fine print where it says that the registration fee covers me and H (or a non pregnant support person) So it'll cost about $400ish instead of $800...much better!
Missing Our July Sparkler
BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron
Will baby #3 be another girl?
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My 2 December boys
I took the BF one, too, and I wasn't a big fan - the LC wasn't all that great. But I do want to work harder on the BF bit this time around, so I'm definitely taking that one [and hoping it's better]. It'll also cost $20.
Just saw that my hospital offers a sibling course, where they let the siblings-to-be tour the L&D wing, make a bib for new baby and talk through what it'll be like to bring a baby home. It's free, so we may do that with DS.
We watched YouTube for CPR lessons and have re-watched them every few months since we want to make sure that's fresh on our minds and CPR for a newborn is different than CPR for a toddler.
I researched labor pretty extensively. I used the internet for lots of great references about what to expect and read some books.
As far as taking care of DD, DH & I have been around babies and kids quite a bit, so we felt pretty covered there. We also watched The Happiest Baby on the Block, which is great for learning how to sooth a newborn.
I think the one thing I wasn't very prepared for was breastfeeding. I read a little, but I still didn't know what to expect. Luckily, my hospital had a great Lactation Consultant that worked extensively with us. Without her, I wouldn't have ever figured it out. I am not sure if a class would have helped though or not.
So I think you can by-pass the classes, but they certainly won't hurt. Especially if you or YH haven't been around a lot of babies.
BFP #5 11/15/14, Team Green EDD 7/22/15
BFP #4 4/30/13, baby girl born med-free Jan. 2014
BFP #3 9/24/12, Missed m/c at 9w1d (baby measured 8w5d)
BFP #2 9/23/10, healthy baby girl born med-free June 2011
BFP #1 5/21/10, Missed m/c at 10w4d (baby measured 8wks), D&C 6/29/10
"Life is like a camera, just focus on what's important and capture the good times, develop from the negatives and if things don't work out, just take another shot."
DH also went to a Daddy Bootcamp class offered at the hospital and LOVED it, since he got to talk to real new dads who brought in their 2-3 months old and discussed life with a newborn. He came home with a lot more confidence about bringing baby home.
BFP #2 03/08/11 EDD 11/16/11 DD Born on 11/04/11
BFP #3 08/29/12 EDD 05/06/13 M/C on 08/30/12
BFP #4 11/01/12 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C on 12/28/12
BFP #5 04/30/13 EDD 01/03/14 DS Born on 01/02/14
BFP #6 01/11/15 EDD 09/22/15 M/C 03/09/15
We already took an infant CPR class, which was free through DH's work, and was great. They went over a lot of other baby safety, first aid, and child proofing info too.
We will be doing the childbirth class through the hospital I'm going to deliver at. It has the tour, and pre-registration, as well as some labor support stuff for the DH which he's nervous about. I've heard it's pretty useful. Insurance covers part of it, and I think we're on the hook for about $50.
My friends have recommended skipping the breastfeeding class, and just reading some articles on latching, talking with other BFing moms, and making heavy use of the LCs on staff at the hospital. The BFing class is all about how wonderful BFing is, but if you've already made up your mind it's pointless.
I'm still undecided about the baby care class. I'm pretty sure I can learn most of what I need to know from the nurses at the hospital, the internet, and my friends with kids. But maybe I'd be more confident with a class. That one is about $200 and not covered by insurance, so that's one reason to skip it.
Miscarriage 3/15 at 10 weeks
BFP 7/23/15 EDD 4/3/16
I can't remember what classes I took, but there was a baby basics, and a preparing for labor where we learned some pain-relief techniques, like if you rub your fingers down someone's arm or leg so there is no break (continuous, one direction) it disrupts pain receptors in the brain, and pressure/counter pressure. I also took a breastfeeding class. Mine were usually 1-2 hours, one was a 4-hour Saturday, and I think they were all "by donation, $35 suggested".
I found those mildly helpful, but I didn't really do any research, I didn't have any pregnant friends, I didn't really have a support group to ask questions. I had my mom, who hadn't been pregnant in 19 years, and my younger sister, who, 7 years later, is still single.
DS1 born 11/3/06 * DS2 born 3/29/08 * DD born 3/15/11
Scarlett Mae born 1/14/14 Our family is now complete!