"Oh, so you're 'one and done' then?"

anitaflora · August 2013

Ugh. What I heard from DS's teacher yesterday when we were making chit chat when I picked him up from camp yesterday.

I guess she said that because of DS being 3 1/2??? Or my age (which she doesn't know so...)??? I don't really get where her comment came from.

But I replied, "No, we were still trying."

Then, upon hearing that I had five early losses she proceeded to advise me that my body "will know when it's ready."

Completely bummed out my otherwise really great day.

Thanks for letting me vent here about this.

Teresa1896 · August 2013

Well that's a whole lotta verbal diarrhea! Some people need to learn to keep their mouths shut!

weaslewam · August 2013

Ughhhhhhh what a B!!!!!!! Very unprofessional to ask about that!!! Who says those things anyways?!?!

melly918 · August 2013

Wow, talk about crossing the line. Ugh. So tactless and ignorant.

FmrAFBrat · August 2013

Seriously, what a b! I'm seriously thinking some people need a permanent filter. I'm sorry you had to deal with her and her "opinion". Clearly she has no clue.

ct103 · August 2013

God. That sh!t is like nails on a chalkboard. How dare she try to justify what you've been through, when she doesn't even know you. People are so f**king clueless

delino · August 2013

What a twatwaffle!

MJM3108 · August 2013

I'm so sorry you had to deal with that thoughtless biatch... People just don't get it. Big (((hugs))) to you, darlin.

CNYBride05 · August 2013

How inappropriate. I'm sorry she's an socially incompetent dud

KikiCohen · August 2013

I'm so sorry she said that to you

I seriously hate people sometimes!

JellyTwoPointO · August 2013

Wow I am so sorry

anitaflora · August 2013

Thank you SO much ladies. I was feeling really crappy about it and thought well maybe I'm just being oversensitive. But after talking to DH and reading your responses I am thinking not. I may even try to tactfully say something to her when I see her and just let her know I thought her question was intrusive and inappropriate.

Thank you again SO much. I know I'm new to this side of the loss boards and I can't say enough how much I appreciate your support.

Mmm79 · August 2013

You are not being overly sensitive - she definitely crossed the line. So sorry you were on the receiving end of this.

amidkiff · August 2013

What the hell is wrong with people!?!? X( I swear the majority of the world is populated by idiots.....and these are the people educating our children...

Junebug060609 · August 2013

Those comments hurts so bad, like rubbing salt in a wound. Some people just need to learn to keep their trap shut

SunshinyLees · August 2013

Ugh I'm so sorry hun. Unless people have had a loss themselves they really have no clue. Huge hugs xo

ChloBub · August 2013

Ugh, so rude. I'm so sorry you had to deal with such insensitivity.

densquared · August 2013

Yikes! I wish people would think before they speak, especially about such a sensitive topic.

lrichmond86 · August 2013

As a teacher, I'm mortified. What an inappropriate thing for a someone to say, especially in a professional relationship. So sorry

CheesyPeas · August 2013

I'm so sorry she said that to you! I don't understand how some people are too dense to realize that those words are hurtful.

hopefulmom81 · August 2013

Answer: "No, my husband and I are still having unprotected sex, and thank you for asking". People are so odd.

QuigleyCat1 · August 2013

Ugh, I'm so sorry! (((Anita)))

anitaflora · August 2013

Wow - I am really overwhelmed by all of your support. Thank you again so, so much. Xoxoxox

ksyknelvr73 · August 2013

So many ((HUGS)) @anitaflora. That was INCREDIBLY insensitive of her to say. It's one thing to assume you're "one and done" but completely another to try and tell you that five losses is just your body "not being ready". I'm so mad for you.

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