So we just booked our tickets to fly home for my brother's wedding. We got the baby a seat and we're planning on bringing the carseat, but the guidelines that delta has are a bit vague. C will be almost 6 months when we fly and won't be on solids yet...hopefully

and she is EBF. I know I can check her stroller at the gate but I don't know if ticketed infants are allowed the same carry on rules as adults? Could DH and I each bring our own carry on suitcase and an extra with her stuff in it? Or would that just be too much to deal with and we should just suck it up and check a bag? Also, any other tips you can give me on traveling with an infant? Thanks for any input you have, I just don't have any experience in the area, obviously!
Re: Flying with baby?
I traveled with my LO when she was 6 weeks old. I flew JetBlue, so I was able to check a bag. On the airplane itself, I brought the diaper bag, boppy, and LO on board. I gate checked both her stroller and car seat, so it was waiting for me when I got off the plane (even for my connecting flight through JFK).
If you are bringing the car seat, get a car seat bag. I got mine at BRU for like $15 and it was big and orange, very bright to pick it out of the crowd. Plus, it protects it while it's in the plane hold.
Sadly, I would suck it up and check a bag. The good news, is it takes a bit of time to get organized after the flight (putting the car seat in the stroller, diaper change in the restroom), that my checked bag was ready to be picked up when I finally got to the baggage claim.
My biggest advice (which I'm sure you've heard before) is have LO try to nurse on the way up and the landing in order to pop her ears. Luckily, my LO had no problem with the pressure change.
Enjoy your trip!
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Like PP mentioned check your stroller and car seat at the gate, unless you think your LO will sleep in the car seat.
I've traveled/flown quite a bit with DD and just make sure to give yourself plenty of time for everything. From driving to the airport to getting to the gate.
We traveled with our G-Luxe stroller but since you have a carseat you may want to use a SnG or something lightweight you can get a gate check bag. I also had a Baby B'Aire travel vest that was amazing but we rented a carseat at our destination and didn't take one on the plane.