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April 2014 Moms

Devastated

I think I'm out :( After almost a year of trying to conceive, we found out yesterday we were pregnant! Starting last night I began to spot. Spotting got darker this morning, spent the day in the ER got put on bed rest but I just passed a gush of red blood and my cramping is pretty bad! I go back in two days to have my levels drawn again but I'm pretty sure I just miscarried :-( I'm so discouraged after so much excitement yesterday!! I know it's so early and we just found out but I am devastated!

Re: Devastated

  • I'm so sorry :(
    Allyvaughan86
  • I'm sorry for your loss. It doesn't matter how early it is, it's still so hard to deal with especially when you've been trying so long. Take care of yourself.
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  • So sorry
    Baby #1: Elena 4/6/14
    Baby #2: Grayson EDD 10/22/16


    Allyvaughan86
  • I am so sorry!

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    Allyvaughan86
  • I am so so sorry! T&Ps your way, hugs!
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  • it is the WORST feeling.  i was pregnant for 48 hours with our first loss and it didn't matter that not much time had passed....  i had fallen in love with that baby, started to plan and dream ahead, imagined our family all together.

    it's devastating.  i know nothing i say can make your pain lessen even a tiny bit.  i'm so sorry :(
    Allyvaughan86Nijay714[Deleted User]
  • I am so sorry for your loss. 
    DS#1 Jack was born 3/29/12
    BFP #2 8/10/13, EDD 4/19/14 Team Green! 

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    Allyvaughan86
  • I'm sorry you are going through this. 
                  
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                                                                DS #1 born 05/25/2012   
                                                         BFP#2:  06/12/2013 ---- loss
     
                                                                DS #2 born 4/08/2014
          BPF#4: 2/1/2016 --- 2/23/2016 suspected molar pregnancy--- 3/15/2016 D&E - diagnosis MM
                                                                   BFP#5 - 9/22/2016
                        
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    Allyvaughan86
  • That's exactly how I feel right now! I fell in love with that baby as soon as I saw those two lines. I was already thinking about names, about nurseries, about how great of a dad it was going to have. Now my heart is completely broken!
  • I'm so sorry. :(

    BFP #1: EDD 12.28.12 - MC @ 6w3d | BFP #2: EDD 11.15.13 - D&C @ 12w4d
    BFP #3: Superbaby born 4.5.14 | Just When You Least Expect It...
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    Allyvaughan86
  • I'm so sorry. It's hard, I miscarried at 5 weeks in march and I only knew I was pregnant for 48 hours. Thoughts and prayers for a rainbow baby soon.
    Allyvaughan86
  • Huge hugs. No matter how long you've known, the news hurts so so bad. :(
    BFP #1 - 10/20/09 EDD 07/01/10 M/C @ 8 weeks
    BFP #2 - 2/27/10 EDD 11/9/10 Born 11/3/10
    BFP #3 - 8/1/13 EDD 4/13/14 :)<3


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    Allyvaughan86
  • I feel terrible for you. It's such a cruel situation. I hope you are able to feel better soon.

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    Allyvaughan86
  • So sorry :( I had a mc at 11 weeks. Such an awful, painful feeling.

    BFP #1 May 20, 2013   
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    Allyvaughan86
  • I'm so sorry. Prayers coming your way.

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    Allyvaughan86
  • so sorry luv. We haven't been trying nearly as long but I had the same thing happen last month and I was also devastated. I'm so scared to go through it again this month. My heart goes out to you and your DH. It doesn't matter how long you've been pregnant, when it's real to you, it hurts to loose it :( .
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    Allyvaughan86
  • Sending you T&P. I am so sorry.
    Allyvaughan86
  • I'm so sorry you have to go through this.  HUGS!
    Married the love of my life June 18, 2011 -- Me (28) DH (29)
    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
    BFP#4 6.18.14 EDD 3.3.15 Team Pink
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
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  • oh no! What a horrible rollercoaster of emotions. I'm so sorry!

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    Allyvaughan86
  • I'm so sorry.

    Allyvaughan86
  • :(  I'm so sorry.

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    Allyvaughan86
  • So sorry :(


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  • Prayers to you
    Allyvaughan86
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  The second a woman finds out she's pregnant, she becomes bonded to her child.  No matter how long or how short, it's still devastating.  I'm so sorry. 
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  • Thank you Mommas for all your support! This has been the hardest most emotionally draining day of my life! I know that I will always love my angel baby!
  • I am sorry for your loss. Be gentle with yourself, and feel what you need to feel. I hope you'll be able to join another month board very soon.


     







     
              
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    Natural miscarriage @ 8 weeks - 3/8/2005
    Big Brother "Skippy" born - 2/28/2007
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    "Hen" (EDD 6/7/2013) - born sleeping @ 19 weeks - 1/15/2013
    "G-Unit" born - 4/14/2014 and he's 100% perfection!!
    Allyvaughan86
  • I am so sorry for your loss. My loss in May was pretty much the same. Let yourself grieve. You became attached at the two lines. T&P with you.

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    Allyvaughan86
  • I'm sorry for your terrible news. Focus on the fact that you got pregnant! That's great news! Now hopefully your body will learn and grow for the next time. I mc at 5 wks in April and I'm back in action for round two. Just gotta stay positive! It will happen! :)
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    Allyvaughan86
  • T&P for you. I know the feeling just try and stay positive. Good luck when your ready to try again
  • So sorry for your loss. :(
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  • So sorry! You will get through this.

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  • I`m sorry mommy that your dream ended too soon :(
    I hope you`re coming back very soon whith a baby bump :X
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  • I'm so sorry ((hugs))
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