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Just wanted to check in and let you ladies know that I did make it home safely so no one would worry. I may not post much for another day or so though because I'm completely fried and I'm having a really bad day. As far as I know everything is fine with baby, it's nothing like that, I'm just dealing with screwed up family shit that has me in a bad head space and it's really hard to deal with this after 15 hours of driving yesterday, not getting to bed until 3am, and being woken at 7am. Mr.MM, Baby Archer, myself, and the animals, are all safe and healthy, I'm just exhausted and not in a good place mentally. Going to try and find a way to relax for the evening because I know being this stressed out is not good for the baby and he's the most important thing right now. *HUGS* to all the ladies who have been having a rough few days. Everyone looks beautiful in their BPF pics :)
BFP#1 9/28/2012 - EDD 6/3/2013 - MMC discovered 11/21/2012 @ 12w2d - D&C 11/24/2012
BFP#2 4/4/2013 - Born at 37w3d on 11/26/13 via emergency c-section
Loving our beautiful rainbow baby boy Archer!
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  • MsAmandaPantsMsAmandaPants member
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    Big (((hugs))), mm!
    Me: 36 yo, TTC #1 since Feb. 2012
    BFP #1, 3/12, EDD 11/9/12, MMC 3/27/12, D&C 4/10/12

    BFP #2: 11/16/12, EDD 7/25/13, MMC 12/5/12, D&C 12/6/12, Complete molar pregnancy confirmed 2/9/13, benched for 6 months until  August 2013

    IUI #1, 8/16/13 Femara + Menopur, 3 mature follicles, BFN
    IUI #2 (back-to-back, 9/12/13 and 9/13/13) Femara + Menopur, four mature follicles, BFFN
    IUI #3, 10/8/13 Femara + Menopur, six mature follicles, BFN

    BFP #3, 12/9/2013, while on treatment break, EDD: 8/22/2014  Please stick and grow, LO!

    Additional Dx: hypothyroidism, TgAb positive & anti-TPO positive, POR/DOR (2/2013), and suspected endometriosis

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  • allureaallurea member
    edited August 2013
    Glad to hear you are home safe and sound.  I hope you get some rest and manage to relax a little.  *hugs*

    If you feel like ranting, I'll lend you my ears...or eyes in this case, just pm me, I have a lot of messenger programs lol.

    BFP #1 09/15/09, MMC 09/28/09
    BFP #2 06/04/12, EDD 02/09/13, MC at 6w3d on 06/18/12
    BFP #3 01/16/13, EDD 10/04/13, Born 09/17/13

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  • ravenclaw1ravenclaw1 member
    happy to know you made it home safe, but I'm sad to hear that things are kind of crazy. I hope stuff settles soon
    BFP #1 - Mango - 6/11/12, EDD 2/22/12 Natural MC 7/15/12
    BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
    All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
    Back to normal business December 2012
    BFP #3 - Froggy - 1/15/13, EDD 9/27/13 TEAM GREEN
    It's a girl! Alice - Born 9/20/13, 8lbs 2oz

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  • luvbostonluvboston member
    Glad your home safe! Take it easy, I find pedicures help:)
    6 m/c
    Anovulatory cycles, increased Synthroid Diagnosed Sep 2010
    Natural cycle Dec 2010 BFP M/C 6 1/2 Weeks, D&E Jan 2011
    1 Clomid/Ovidrel BFN May 2011
    Natural cycle Aug 2011 BFP M/C 4 Weeks
    1 IUI Sept 2011 BFP M/c 7 weeks
    Provera Dec 2011 BFP M/C 3 Weeks
    DQ ALPHA HLA MATCH, High NK Cells Diagnosed Dec 2011
    IVF March 2012 BFP m/c 4weeks 5 days (IL, Prednisone)
    IVF#2w/DS July 2012 MEGA FAILURE BFN (IL, Dexamethasone)
    Diagnosed No real HLA Match, DQ Beta Triad, High TNF, Low NK Cells
    Oct 2012 Natural Cycle m/c 4wks (Lovenox, Prednisone) 
    Went to Beer Center- high tnf, low lad, implantation failure
    Nov/Dec 2012 LIT Treatment
    Dec 12 Humira
    Jan 2013 BFP
    Humira,LIT,Prednisone, Lovenox, IVIG, Baby Aspirin
    Miracle Born August 2013 Premature

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  • klbowieklbowie member
    I'm glad you are home safe and sound. Sorry you are in a bad place. Sending you hugs. Hope you can get some rest and relax tonight.
    BFP#1 02/19/12 missed mc 03/30/12 1st D&C 05/16/12 2nd D&C 08/17/12 
    BFP #2 06/26/13 EDD 2/26/14 Hoping for my rainbow baby!
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  • RubiksElfRubiksElf member
    Glad you are home safe!  Sorry for the family drama!  I hope it passes quickly for you, so you are able to get some much needed rest.  Or if it doesn't pass, just that you don't have to be involved!

    BFP #1: EDD 12.28.12 - MC @ 6w3d | BFP #2: EDD 11.15.13 - D&C @ 12w4d
    BFP #3:     Superbaby born 4.5.14 | Just When You Least Expect It...
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  • ZAngelZAngel member
    Glad you made it home safe.  Sorry you are having a hard time with family.  I hope you can find a way to relax tonight and have a much better day tomorrow. 
    BFP #1 (DS, 10/98), BFP #2 (DD, 10/09)
    BFP #3 -mm/c @ 7wks, discovered at 9wks, D&C 9/28
    BFP #4 5/29 EDD 2/9 - please be our rainbow
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  • docamy2011docamy2011 member
    So glad you made it home safe!! Hugs for dealing with family stuff! I hope it gets better soon and you can relax!!


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    BFP#1 2/5/13 - EDD 10/11/13 - MMC@8wks - D&C 3/7/13
    BFP#2 7/10/13 - EDD 3/21/14- Eli's Here!!
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  • hopeforamiracle2013hopeforamiracle2013 member
    Glad you got home safe.. sorry about the drama.. my family is famous for drama so I totally get how stressful it can be!  Be kind to yourself!
    4 IVF, 2 FET
    January 13, 2012- m/c 1
    September 12, 2012- m/c 2

    MTHFR (2 copies C677T, +ANA)

    Gluten free, dairy free, acupuncture
    1/13/13- BFP #3-
    1/14- 32 Progesterone 20
    1/16- 100 Progesterone 23
    1/22- 2054!! Progesterone 18.7 (On supplements since 1/16)

    PLEASE be our sticky rainbow baby.. You have no idea how much you are loved already!!

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  • Julieturner507Julieturner507 member
    Glad you made it home! Praying you find a way to relax.
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  • limeblue44limeblue44 member
    Glad that you made it home safe and sound but pretty sad to hear about all the stress going on right now, hope that you are able to relax over the next few days. {HUGS} We are thinking about you!
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    BFP 12/24/2012 EDD 8/30/2013 MC 1/12/2013 
    BFP 4/10/2013 EDD 12/19/2013 It's a Girl!
    Elyse arrived 12/14/2013
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  • ellajune2012ellajune2012 member
    ((hugs)) hope the weekend is better for you!
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    BFP with #1 (twins!) 11/18/2011 - missed m/c at 8weeks3days; d&c 1/19/2012; myomectomy to remove 18cm+,10cm & 5cm fibroids 4/2012; TTC again 7/2012; BFP #2 (twins) 11/13/2012; missed m/c at 7weeks;
    BFP #3: baby girl born 3/5/2014

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  • BootsOrHeartsBootsOrHearts member
    Glad you made it home and I hope things start to look up after a few days of R&R.
    **Warning: Losses and living child mentioned**
    BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy.
    BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
    BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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  • mightymousymightymousy member
    Thanks so much for all the love ladies *HUGS*
    BFP#1 9/28/2012 - EDD 6/3/2013 - MMC discovered 11/21/2012 @ 12w2d - D&C 11/24/2012
    BFP#2 4/4/2013 - Born at 37w3d on 11/26/13 via emergency c-section
    Loving our beautiful rainbow baby boy Archer!
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  • Adam2010Adam2010 member
    Glad you are home safe but sorry you are dealing with a lot of familu sh!t. Hope it gets better soon! Huge hugs!
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    TTC #2 Since October 2011
    RE testing results: DH- normal ME- DX:PCOS and One copy of MTHFR gene
    IUI#1 Sept/Oct 2012-Follistim, Ovidrel, Metformin, Baby Asprin, Lovenox, Crinone, and Neevo Beta 10/24=BFN
    No 2nd IUI but instead TI with Metformin, Baby Asprin, Neevo and Prometrium
    BFP #4 5/4/13-EDD 1/19/14- grow little one, grow!
    Beta #1@15DPO HCG-95, progesterone-25 Beta #4@24DPO HCG-2498, progesterone-30, 1st U/S 6mm,133BPM 2nd U/S 1.6cm, 167 BPM
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  • mightymousymightymousy member
    eme520 said:
    Hugs MM, I'm sorry about your family issues, but really glad you and archer are safe back home. P.S. do you watch the show archer? I can't help associate that show with your LO

    We found out about the show after we had already chosen the name. We've only seen an episode or two. We still really like the name so we decided to go with it anyway despite the show :)
    BFP#1 9/28/2012 - EDD 6/3/2013 - MMC discovered 11/21/2012 @ 12w2d - D&C 11/24/2012
    BFP#2 4/4/2013 - Born at 37w3d on 11/26/13 via emergency c-section
    Loving our beautiful rainbow baby boy Archer!
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  • mightymousymightymousy member
    eme520 said:
    eme520 said:
    Hugs MM, I'm sorry about your family issues, but really glad you and archer are safe back home. P.S. do you watch the show archer? I can't help associate that show with your LO

    We found out about the show after we had already chosen the name. We've only seen an episode or two. We still really like the name so we decided to go with it anyway despite the show :)
    I think it's an amazing name and the show makes it better. I imagine him being a ladykiller spy minus the idiocy ;)
    LOL! thanks :D
    BFP#1 9/28/2012 - EDD 6/3/2013 - MMC discovered 11/21/2012 @ 12w2d - D&C 11/24/2012
    BFP#2 4/4/2013 - Born at 37w3d on 11/26/13 via emergency c-section
    Loving our beautiful rainbow baby boy Archer!
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