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It's been a sad day...

veronicavplingveronicavpling
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So, I received heartbreaking news today that my 3 year old nephew has passed today. I'm so shocked and so sad, but what really shocks me is that the mom's bf is what caused his death.

Apparently he (the boyfriend) hit him really hard and his heart just stopped...

He's only three for crying out loud. & the mom of course is just a mess right now..but she's more concerned where her bf went. He fled after the incident happened.

I just don't understand why anyone would do that.

My sister would tell me that everytime she see's the baby, he always has some sort of bruise on him.

I'm still so shocked and still at a lost of words.

They now took her other baby which she recently gave birth to & all she is worried about is where her boyfriend is.

I'm so disgusted...
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  • tiffanyyytiffanyyy member
    That's so sad. I'm so sorry for your loss! I hope the cops catch him and lock him away.
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  • Shaunamae87Shaunamae87 member
    It's seems woman who end up in these domestic violence situations are blinded. They are manipulated into loving the person and thinking they need him. I am also disgusted in the fact that all she is thinking about is him. But you have to remember, shes probably been brain washed by him. It is so sad that she won't be allowed to care for her own baby because of what may potentially happen to him because this freak is still out there. Even if he was locked away, there is a big chance she still would not be awarded custody. This poor woman needs some counseling. It's sad and it's comparable to drug addicts where as they will not reach out for help until they are ready to do so. After she does reach out, a good place to start is a protection order. I am so sorry this happened to your family. I sincerely hope she gets help.
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  • CNYBride05CNYBride05 member
    Absolutely heartbreaking. I'm so sorry for your family's loss.
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  • GoyaBean913GoyaBean913 member
    Oh god. This is terrible. So sorry for your loss.
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  • KimCousinoKimCousino member
    I am so sorry for your families loss. I don't understand how anyone could harm a child. I pray that you can find peace during your loss and that your sisters infant is properly cared for.
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  • leahaustinleahaustin member
    Wow, that is heartbreaking news. I am sorry for your loss; I can't imagine loosing one of my nieces or nephews. My heart goes out to you and your family. I hope they find the boyfriend and I hope your sister's children find good care.
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  • veronicavplingveronicavpling
    thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers it means a lot!
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  • CarolinaGirl411CarolinaGirl411 member
    How awful, so sorry for your family's loss.
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  • katiebeneskatiebenes member
    worried about the boyfriend? please tell me she's worried he might come back not worried about the loser that killed the child
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  • Jmo30Jmo30 member
    This is horrible! I'm so sorry.
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  • VVT3111VVT3111 member
    katiebenes said:
    worried about the boyfriend? please tell me she's worried he might come back not worried about the loser that killed the child
    she was more worried about losing him. but everyone told her to snap the hail out of it! that's her child for crying out loud. thats her first born. and i think she has a clue now. but it's still so sad that she would even worry about that fool....

    i pray karma gets to him. that was not his child and for him to put his hands on that poor boy like that is just wrong....and im upset the mom was okay with the bf putting his hands on him like that. ugh..
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  • veronicavplingveronicavpling
    and sorry for the confusing different screen name im actually trying to figure out what email is to what right now  since i was always so lazy before. -_-
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  • VVT3111VVT3111 member
    UPDATE:


    the boyfriend called the police and confessed everything and is in jail. but the mom is still more concerned about the stupid bf!


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  • Laughing thru lifeLaughing thru life member
    Terrible. Can someone in the family get custody of her other child?

    (Side note- you should be careful what you post since its probably an ongoing investigation even though what happened is pretty clear)
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  • VVT3111VVT3111 member
    Laughing thru life said:
    Terrible. Can someone in the family get custody of her other child? (Side note- you should be careful what you post since its probably an ongoing investigation even though what happened is pretty clear)

    eek i didnt think about that. but i'm not sure about what's going to happen to the young baby but i know social service has him. and after the service for baby alonzo is over the bf and the mom is getting thrown in jail. thank god...

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  • tashad18tashad18 member
    I'm so sorry for your family and their loss.  I'm glad that he is in police custody, and I sincerely hope that the child's mother snaps out of it and realize who the victim is here.  I just can't see how a parents can put anyone above their own child. 


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    Oh girl, I am so sorry for your loss. Ts and Ps for your family.
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  • VVT3111VVT3111 member
    thank you so much again everyone, for your thoughts and prayers. i pray that no one has to ever go through something like this....


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  • bmqcmgbmqcmg member

    That is so awful!

    DDs dad and I got divorced when she was around 2 years old, this is my biggest fear.

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    VVT3111 said:
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    but the mom is still more concerned about the stupid bf!



    Wow. I truly hope that the authorities notice her lack of concern (or your family brings it up) and her newborn is placed with someone that actually cares about her. 

    I am so, so sorry.
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