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Didn't know we wanted another until the BFN today :(

mandolynn81mandolynn81 member
edited August 2013 in Trying to Get Pregnant
DH an I totally were not planning to have another child but the last week I have been feeling ill and just not myself. The more we talked about the what if's the more excited we got. I am on a break from school for 1 -1.5 years, which would be perfect timing, and I just work part time. We have a daughter named Lily, who is almost 4 (I was here alot from 1st tri til she was 2 years old) But I went to the doc and they said BFN. I didn't think I would be this sad!

(ETA: we tried for a year and a half for lily)
My beautiful redhead Lily Anne (3.5yrs)
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Re: Didn't know we wanted another until the BFN today :(

  • jb2rnjb2rn member

    I am sorry. Your daughter is beautiful, btw.

    good luck on your journey from here on out!

    b/w=FSH 15.6, AMH 0.4 surprise natural BFP on 3/12/11
    DS born via unplanned C-section at 40w6d

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  • KingLEDKingLED member
    I'm sorry.  Good luck and I hope you get your BFP in your free window!
    Son: Jackson, 11/02/06, stillborn due to PPROM and IUGR. Over the next ten years we had 9 miscarriages from 8-14 weeks. On May 18, 2016 my daughter, Ridley, was born. We're OADNBC.
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  • likeanoldtimemovielikeanoldtimemovie member
    Your little girl is gorgeous! And I love her name! We have a niece named Lily.

    I'm sorry it didn't work out this month, but if you're both excited about the possibility of a second, maybe it's time to "officially" start TTC! Good luck to you!
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  • ashie0610ashie0610 member
    I'm sorry you feel sad.  We originally planned to start TFAS in December, but were both way more disappointed than we expected to be when we got our BFN after our first cycle NTNP last month.  That's when we decided to screw "the plan". 

    Your daughter is adorable, btw!
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  • mandolynn81mandolynn81 member
    Thanks ladies! Looking forward to next month!
    My beautiful redhead Lily Anne (3.5yrs)
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  • janda426janda426 member
    ChancieMark said:

    I hate to be that guy but, you went to the doctor for a pee test?


    Good luck moving forward.
    Yeah.. You might save money by just using a HPT next time... Good luck
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  • mandolynn81mandolynn81 member
    janda426 said:
    I hate to be that guy but, you went to the doctor for a pee test?

    Good luck moving forward.
    Yeah.. You might save money by just using a HPT next time... Good luck
    I just happen to be going in for some other bloodwork and asked how hard it would be to check an extra box, they said no additional trouble or costs. Normally I would have just bought another hpt, but we were talking and it seemed like it would be easier ;)
    My beautiful redhead Lily Anne (3.5yrs)
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