Adoption

Calling Ohio members

I am wondering how much infant adoption costs in Ohio. I am also wondering of cost internationally. My husband and I have been ttc our first child for two years and I am now starting to think that adoption maybe another option. Please let me know of any good resources and what you found cost wise.

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  • I think it really depends on what agency you work with.  We're working with an agency in northern Ohio and it will be about $26,000.  We don't know exactly because we aren't matched yet and don't know what the legal fees will be.  I'd suggest starting by having a few phone conferences or attending an info meeting or two with some agencies you're looking to work with.  Good luck!

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  • Hello fellow Ohioan!  We are working with Catholic Charities of Northwest Ohio, and their sliding scale ranges from $8-15K for adoption fees.  You need to add the cost of home study and application/training, but what I like is that it is all really spread out, from application to finalization.  

    A highly recommended agency is Adoption Link in Yellow Springs.  Total costs somewhere around $11-13K.  All for DIA.

    We are also working with a Detroit-area agency with similar fees.  They're out there if you look!  
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  • I posted a reply with lower-cost agencies and hope it shows up eventually.  :(

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  • Third time's a charm?  We are in Ohio and have found three agencies with costs ranging from $8-15K.  Hoping this actually posts.
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  •  No idea about domestic infant adoption, but international adoption costs shouldn't really vary from state to state. Things like your home study might vary a little (Ours was $1400; a friend's in Minnesota was $2500) but most costs are pretty consistent from state to state.
  • LO95LO95 member
    I'm in Ohio and adoption down the line is really on my mind.  

    I wonder--- Those of you in Ohio--- What is adoption here like?!  Is foster-to-adopt a nightmare?  Is it impossible to do a domestic adoption?  I don't know much about it and I'd like to hear about anyone's story.

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  • kva11ishokva11isho member
    edited July 2013
    LO95 said:
    I'm in Ohio and adoption down the line is really on my mind.  

    I wonder--- Those of you in Ohio--- What is adoption here like?!  Is foster-to-adopt a nightmare?  Is it impossible to do a domestic adoption?  I don't know much about it and I'd like to hear about anyone's story.

    We started our domestic infant adoption process in October, 2012 with an agency in northern Ohio.  Right now we are home study approved and waiting to be matched.  So far we have had 8 birth families look at our profile and choose another family.  I've been told it's an average of 15 times your book is shown, and 6 - 24 months waiting. Our home study was approved in January, so technically we've only been waiting to be matched for about 6 months - I'm not overly concerned yet (but extremely anxious) since it's still relatively early for us.  The process really hasn't been terrible - frustrating at times, yes, but not difficult to complete. 

    I would definitely suggest researching a few agencies (local and national) as well as your county's Childrens Services department.  We attended a meeting with our county, but they no longer offer "straight" adoption - only foster to adopt, which we aren't looking at right now.  Attend a few informational meetings or set up conference calls/skype interviews until you get all the information you need!

    Not to self promote, but if you click the "Timeline" link at the top of our blog, there is a straight forward list of everything we have done since begining our process.  Link should be below. 

    Good luck!

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  • LO95LO95 member
    kva11isho  Thanks!  And lots of good wishes to you.

    Me: 27 DH: 27

    October 2013: Endo erosion/ Clear HSG

    March 2014: SA #1/  2%morph, borderline sperm count, decent motility

    June 2014: SA#2/  2% morph, low sperm count, worse motility

    Plan: "Quick Start IVF"/antagonist protocol with Follistim, Ganirelix, Ovidrel and progesterone suppositories (yay)

    High AMH (11) and Low BMI= low doses of everything to prevent OHSS

    July 27, 2014: Started Follistim injections for ten days

    July 31, 2014: U/S= 20 follicles, 8.5 lining, E2 is good, Ganirelix for 4 days starting 8/2

    August 4, 2014: 14 follicles on-track, good lining, Trigger 8/6

    August 9, 2014: 9 ICSIed/ 5 embryos; aiming for a 5dt on 8/13

    August 13, 2014: 5DT of 1 4BA almost-hatching blastocyst (Please hang in, Little Bug!)

    August 14, 2014: We have 3 frosties! Hope they're having fun hanging out together. :)

    August 23, 2014: Beta #1: 144 8/23/14: Beta #2: 374 Beta 8/25/14  Beta #3: 6,600 9/3/14

    September 9, 2014: Ultrasound #1 115 heartbeats per minute

    September 23, 2014: Ultrasound #2 182 heartbeats per minute 

    September 26, 2014: Love my OB's office

    October 10, 2014: Our baby looks like a baby and is moving all over!  

    December 8, 2014: Anatomy scan- It's a girl! 


    "Hope strengthens.  Fear kills."- Karen Marie Moning

    "Heaviness is only temporary; the daylight will soon break in."- needtobreathe

  • @LO95 good luck to you, too!  Don't hesitate to reach out if you need more info or just need someone to talk to!

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    check out our blog


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  • Mar14Mar14 member
    edited August 2013
    Good luck!
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