I have read over and over that most doctor won't even see you til you're 8-9 weeks. I called today assuming I'd set up this appointment for a month from now and they told me to come in tomorrow for a pregnancy confirmation. This wouldn't be a big deal except that I have a $2000 deductible on my insurance, so I will have to pay out of pocket. I asked if this was standard procedure and the nurse told me I had to come in before first prenatal. Is this normal?