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Bad turn of events...

danac2010danac2010 member
edited August 2013 in Blended Families
I'm DD this since we have court today. Thanks everyone for your advice/thoughts/concerns.
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Re: Bad turn of events...

  • IlumineIlumine member
    Poor baby.  Immediately get your SD into a therapist.  

    LOOK FOR one of the ones that the court refers out. That will actually help you when it comes to the court case.  The court already recognizes the therapists credentials and unbiased opinions. 
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  • CFjo2010CFjo2010 member
    Oh God.

    Thoughts and prayers with you and your family right now.
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  • Littlejen22Littlejen22 member
    Assuming she said she is bein molested or more then definitely get her into therapy and do not ask her any further questions or it can sound like you put words in her mouth good luck.
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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
    This is just awful and breaks my heart :-(

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  • +just+j++just+j+ member

    OMG, I am so glad your tutor asked her that question.  I have no advice because you sound like you are doing all the right things. Just lots of T&P's. Especially for you SD.

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  • danac2010danac2010 member
    @Littlejen22, she has to see a play therapist and we havent asked any more questions. We don't want to ask anything else or make her think she is in trouble or anyone else will get in trouble so she will talk to someone else
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  • fellesferiefellesferie member
    How terrifying. I'm so sorry.
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  • Ginlyn0Ginlyn0 member
    I'm so sorry to hear that. Poor girl. You are doing the right thing.
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  • KTdiditKTdidit member

    oh wow. T&P for all of you, especially SD. Thank goodness she opened up to you

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  • SimpleJaneSimpleJane member
    I'm so so sorry. Therapy is a must. It is so very hard for children to move past something like this. Often times the hurt will resurface in adolescence when they are starting to form bf/gf relationships as well, so this may be something she will need to work through again later on.

    I'm glad you took action immediately and are keeping her safe. What a relief that must be for her. Are you moving forward with criminal charges as well? Do you think BM knew what was happening? I know it is my biggest fear to intrduce my kids to aman and have them end up being a monster. Men who prey on children can be so very smooth and convincing.
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  • WahooWahoo member
    I am so sorry this has happened to your SD! I am glad she told you so you could put a stop to it. SD WILL remember that once you knew you stepped in to keep her safe! I hope that BM is just as shocked as you are and kicks his azz out.
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