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Do you love your husband more or kids more

Discussing it with my mother the other day. She said , she loves our dad more than she love us.
But i think , that's understandable as she is married to my father for like 40 years now . But what about younger moms like us ?
Do you love one more than the other ?
Personally , i don't think i love my husband more. Its very different , not more or less.
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  • Like, say we were in a situation where I would have to choose between saving my husband or saving my children. I would save my children, BECAUSE my husband has had a good life and has experienced many things in life already. I want my children to still have their lives ahead of them to experience all the things my husband and I have had the privilege to experience already. My husband agrees. Both of us would want the other to first seek our children's safety and THEN worry about one another.

    But what if it was between your husband, children, and Louis. Please rank in the order you would save.

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  • I love K more. But I also don't have a husband so there is that. If I was still married I think it would be a different kind of love, like the other ladies have said. I don't think it's something you can really compare.

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    Like, say we were in a situation where I would have to choose between saving my husband or saving my children. I would save my children, BECAUSE my husband has had a good life and has experienced many things in life already. I want my children to still have their lives ahead of them to experience all the things my husband and I have had the privilege to experience already. My husband agrees. Both of us would want the other to first seek our children's safety and THEN worry about one another.
    Well i hate hypothetical questions lol 
    I was reading a story in which a father was forced to choose between his wife and son and he choose his wife because he was near to her and his son was too far away to be rescued, 
    So i do think , i would save the one who is near to me LOL 
    My husband on the other hand says , he would save me first which i don't like at all . But he is a great father and husband . 
  • I love them differently. I would be crushed to lose either of them, but I think losing my child would actually destroy me to the point of no return. So I'm not sure if that means I love my child more or if I just couldn't bear to live without him.
    I would be devastated to lose either of them . They are both my world. 
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  • Also, I love my H and DS in very different ways.  If faced with a choice to save one or the other, I would definitely choose DS and I am sure my H would do the same if faced with that situation.
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