GTKY---- rudeeee

[Deleted User] · August 2013

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brneyemom2 · August 2013

My husband's brothers and sisters, all equally. I can't generally stand any of them and they can't stand me so it's mutual.

Valie18 · August 2013

Ya... that's an odd question. I was sexually assaulted by a coworker a few years ago (he's no longer a co-worker.) That guy.

Siamese253 · August 2013

Right at this exact moment in time, it's my co-worker. She's a nice chick, and I usually enjoy her company. The problem is that she sucks at her job, like really really sucks. Now I've been put into a position where the boss wants to talk to me about her work.

I don't want to bad mouth her to the boss, but she is so bad that anytime I do a project with her, I end having to redo all her work. Which makes it look like the project took twice as long as necessary (or I have to work on it after work, which I hate doing). I like her as a person but not as a person I have to work with, I wish she would just step up and get her work done.

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KenziK · August 2013

This is going to sound terrible, but I have to say my dad. We stopped talking (my choosing) when I was a Freshman in high school because I could not stand how he treated me like I was less of a person than my younger sister, who in his eyes could do no wrong. Fast forward seven years, I'm getting married and decide to invite him to try and take those first steps to rebuild our relationship. Everyone told me not to invite him because he would try and ruin the wedding, but deep down I knew that if I didn't I would be overcome with guilt. At first he sent me an email saying that he was not going to come because "it would be awkward for him and he felt people there would be talking about him", but in the end my brother told him that I really did want him there and he showed up.

Ever since the wedding I have attempted to keep the relationship going, but I am always the one having to call him and he has said several things that have upset me and made me realize I'm trying to keep someone in my life who is doing nothing but poisoning it. I have gone farther in life than my other two siblings, constantly work my butt off and try to do my best, and for some reason I'm still a bad person to him so I'm done.

KingLED · August 2013

This lady I used to work with. She drove me insane! She would constantly be pretending like she cared about what other employees had to say just long enough to get things out of them and then talk behind their backs and come to me like she's saving the world telling me that so and so said this. She was 50-something and acted like she was in first grade. And what made the whole situation better was that she was the WORST employee there. Unfortunately, my boss (who ultimately decides who stays and gos) thought she was the best thing that ever happened. So no matter how many complaints she got and how many times she did stupid-ass things, she never got fired. Just thinking about it makes me so glad I don't work with her anymore!

jewls619 · August 2013

My former best friend. It's a long story, but basically she stopped coming around when she started dating her boyfriend (which was shortly after I had my DD). Then she blew off my DD's birthday party because I hadn't been talking to her. She turned it into this whole thing about how my best friend and I had been excluding her for months and yadda yadda yadda. I felt like I was back in high school. So yeah, we don't speak anymore.

Regufsevolem · August 2013

My brothers baby mama. She has brought more drama to our family than I can stand. If I see her again, I'll punch her in the gunt.

[Deleted User] · August 2013

My step siblings... My stepdad is a very sweet man, but his children are terrible human beings. I only see them on Thanksgiving, but it always feels too soon.

TallaB · August 2013

My husbands entire family. But the only one I truly despise and refuse to see outside a therapists office is my mother in law. She is the meanest person I have ever met and sadly, she doesn't even realize she's mean. She has said things to me that have completely damaged our relationship beyond repair.

sueann911 · August 2013

CLECyclist said:
I read the title as RUDYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

Me too. I thought we were going to talk about an awesome movie.

But to answer the question. Two coworkers. One is an attention hoar and a literal hoar. She will suck any mans dick if he gave her attention.

The other is a moron who does not know how to communicate unless she is complaining. Yesterday, she was bitching about something stupid about another coworker. I told her to stop running her dick sucker. She complained on me and has stopped talking around me. It was worth it.

mmb248 · August 2013

DH's stepmother. I think there's a special place in hell for women who marry men with kids and then treat those children as if they're "baggage" that they have to "deal with" to be with the guy. DH's dad had full custody, so he had to live with the step-monster full time, and she was the principal of his school. She was physically and verbally abusive, but nothing was ever reported because she was the school principal. She told him that he would never amount to anything, he was too dumb to go to college, he would be a drain on society and most likely he would wind up in jail.

The whole time, "her" child with FIL was spoiled, treated like an angel, and she always talks about how smart he is and how much potential he has. I love that DH is very successful in a highly demanding career while "her" son is regularly arrested for not paying child support, drinks constantly and has never had a job. I should probably feel bad about that, but I don't. Guess she's right when she says I'm an uppity bitch.

TeeJ526 · August 2013

She's not my least favorite person in the world, but I did have to give DH's niece the side eye a couple of months ago. She's 22 and just graduated from college last year. Met a new guy after breaking up with her boyfriend of 2 years and they got pregnant a couple of months later. Before she announced it to the rest of the family, she comes over to DH and I says, "I don't really want it right now so maybe you'd be interested in adopting." Then when DH mentioned that we would like to try and have our own in the future, but are just taking our time to make sure we can afford children, she goes on to tell us that having a child isn't as difficult or expensive as we think. Don't get me wrong, I understand that timing may not be right for her right now and I can't properly express her tone by posting this, but gosh... She was just so casual about it and it irked me a little.

ETA: My gyn just made the list. I saw her a couple of weeks ago and she recommended that I have a HSG so see if scar tissue and Endo might be causing tube blockage. So I schedule the appt for Monday and turns out I need a Rx for my seafood allergy. I can't find my gyn to prescribe the meds if my life depended on it. Looks like it's time for a new doc.

mmb248 · August 2013

dorothyzbornak97 said:

I can't stand my dad's girlfriend. She is crazy as hell and rude along with it. She has said ugly things about my aunt (who is truly one of the kindest people on the planet), my older sister (ditto on the kindness) and my father, himself (he broke up with her once and she told him that he was doing her a favor because she wanted to break up with him because he wasn't educated enough for her). On top of that, she's super-manipulative. My dad is a sweet old man (74) and he's also very naive about women and dating since he and my mom were together almost 30 years before she passed, and he was married for several years before that to my older sister's mom. He also buys into her crap because she's way into the same church he goes to, and he's so wrapped up in that he can't see that she's nuts. I've been openly rude and hostile to her and do not feel bad about it at all.

@dorothyzbornak97 - I don't blame you. I don't feel the need to be even a little polite to people who treat my friends/family like crap.

themrsJRD · August 2013

My friend's husband's baby mama. Piece of shit. Terrible mother.

A girl who used to be my friend. Backstabbing and holier-than-thou, and she married one of my best high school friends and doesn't let him talk to any of his HS friends who are girls.

If I can say a fictional character, Dolores Umbridge. lol.

ETA: also my SIL's soon to be ex husband. Doesn't want to take care of their child unless it makes him look good. Doesn't give SIL access to their money, and instead blows it at bars and on buying expensive things for himself. Ugh.

zg49 · August 2013

A former best friend. He's been through a lot and I try to remember that when he continues to screw up but he's just so selfish - he has no idea how much everything he does affects those around him.

He's currently living with us, lost his job recently because he got caught stealing money from them (not the first job he's done that at), failed out of college last year and pays us a measley $200 to live in our house. He had to have his parents bail him out of the restitution issue yet since he's been jobless he's been going to concerts and shopping which I can't even understand how he justifies that.

I don't hate him I just want him to leave our house and I'd like to cut all ties with him. Just done enabling his selfish, childish lifestyle.

Side note: DH and I would just kick him out but he has no place to go. Once we get PG we will tell him he has to be out by the time I'm 6months along so we can use his space for the nursery. Come on baby - stick!

jjgrl55 · August 2013

Valie18 said:

Ya... that's an odd question. I was sexually assaulted by a coworker a few years ago (he's no longer a co-worker.) That guy.

TRIGGER WARNING: Victim blaming for sexual assault.

For me it's a tie between the guy who sexually assaulted me or his incredibly religious parents who knew about it and tried to pin it on me, regardless of the fact that he confessed to his friends what he did and multiple witnesses saw me completely blacked out afterwards.

I included the incredibly religious part because they tried to turn it into a "nice Christian girls don't drink with boys around" thing. His mother also told me that she had "actually" been raped, so she could tell nothing bad had happened to me and that I had probably actually taken advantage of him. She proceeded to spread this story through the church to cover their asses. The entire church turned their back on me and still thinks they are fan-fucking-tastic people.

Oh, and this was the pastor and pastor's wife I had grown up with from a young age. And people wonder why I have major issues with religious institutions.

eta: Damn, that got way more detailed than I intended. Guess I needed to vent a little bit.

frenchy816 · August 2013

My SIL -- she is downright rude, materialistic, and treats me like I'm an outsider. We have had a few blow ups b/c I'm sick of sitting there and taking her shit. Nothing is ever her fault and everything that is wrong with the world is mine. She even tried hooking DH up with another girl in front of me while we were engaged. That's the short version of 9 years of hell.

janda426 · August 2013

My stepdads mother. I literally hate her. She has been pushing her son to divorce my mom for years (which he is currently in the process of doing) and has been trying to get my moms custody rights taken away. They live with her, well my mom moved out, so it's a hard spot. My mom was in a bad way last year but has completely turned it around and has been obeying the rules plus going above and beyond. But nothing is good enough for that woman. I honestly believe she wants my mom to fall off the face of the earth and never be with her kids ever again.

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