3rd Trimester

Getting impatient

So I am 38+ weeks, went to the doctor yesterday, had internal and he said that the baby is in position but I have not dilated anything and cervix is still tight. Help, what else can I do besides walking and have sex?

Re: Getting impatient

  • try your same frustrations but at 40 weeks and 1 day...

    Nothing has worked for me.?

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  • Sorry but there isn't a damn thing you can do. It sucks, I know, but your body will decide when it's time. But it is a good excuse for some exercise and sex!
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  • I tried the special chocolatecake, the eggplant parmigiana, swinging on a swing, pineapple ... so yeah ..

    DH mentioned something about beets. I guess that's what I am having for dinner. I like them, so I guess it wont hurt ....

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  • Nothing is working yet for me
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  • This is my first child... I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT I'M DOING! that's pretty much my pregnancy in a nutshell. I'm at 39 weeks today. My Ob said at the beginning of the month "I'm very close". i was suppose to be done last week but now she's just told me today that i might actually make it to 41 weeks! How frustrating :/ I very much wish there was just a set date i could KNOW and just be excited for that day. It's just a guessing game aaaand so far i'm a terrible guess. All i do know... DON'T DRINK THE CASTOR OIL!!!

  • Work on your patience. Honestly that's the healthiest and most beneficial thing you can do. Nothing will bring on labour if your body isn't ready - nothing. I learned that the hard way with my first. I was set in my head to have him at 37 weeks. He wasn't born until 40w4d. This time around I have focused solely on remaining patient and enjoying the last few weeks/days of pregnancy. Sounds hokey and lame but its the best thing for your sanity.
  • The best thing you can do is REST. Watch movies. Read. Relax. Spend time doing NOTHING and enjoying the baby kicking in your belly. It will come when it's ready!
  • I wasn't dialated at all at my last appointment with DS... He came a matter of days later and I was a 4 when I got to the hospital!!
  • Just wait until baby is ready to arrive. And remember that things can change at the drop of a hat so just because you aren't dilated right now doesn't really mean anything, you could still go into labor tomorrow.

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  • I'm only 30 weeks and I'm starting to get impatient. I'm feeling pretty over being pregnant today. 
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