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Mayajmommyof3Mayajmommyof3 member
edited July 2013 in High-Risk Pregnancy
I had a breakdown tonight. I'm 24 weeks pregnant with a cerclage on strict BR with only bathroom privileges. I feel I'm so close to a healthy baby but yet so far:-/ All I want to do is hold my baby. I'm so paranoid with every pain I'm always at L&D because of my paranoia fortunately every time I go everything is good:-) I just don't want to lose my baby so I'm always hoping for the best and trying to be positive but every once in a while I get extremely overwhelmed and my reality sets in that it may not work out like I want to.
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    kneenah1231kneenah1231 member
    Sorry feeling so scared.

    I am in the same boat. I am 24wks tomorrow and thought I would find some sign of relief but I don't. I have anxiety and fears everyday. If it wasn't for my DH I would be at L&D every week. Feel free to vent to me if you feel down :(

    I loss my son last aug at 21wks what's different this time around is I have a cerclage which I know is going to buy me more time to keep my baby cooking as long as possible..

    have faith and take it easy!! I had a melt down on Sunday till yesterday morning :( Sending hugs
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    Throw3ksThrow3ks member
    Stay positive! A positive attitude will make you feel better! Thinking about you and your LO. Keep cooking baby!
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    renlbrenlb
    Sorry, I wish we didn't have to live with that fear. I'm 20 weeks pregnant with a cerclage on bed rest. I'm past my loss milestone of 18 weeks but had no cerclage that time. I just feel like it could fail at any moment and my water could break.
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    Starofd00mStarofd00m member
    I am so sorry you have to go through this.  Sending good thoughts and vibes your way!!
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    Kate621Kate621 member
    There are many ladies here who can relate. I had an emergency cerclage at 22.6 weeks and am now almost 32 weeks with the help of bed rest. Hang in there and take it day by day.
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    kimberlymacraekimberlymacrae member
    You're so strong!! Keep your head up lady!

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    T+Schultz4T+Schultz4 member
    You will go full term and do not think otherwise. I spent 4 months on strict bedrest with an emergency cerclage. I was so scared to sneeze or cough. The best you can do is relax, think happy thoughts and drink lots of water! Take one week at a time. Each week you make it, buy a little something for baby and prepare for the big day. You will do great!
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    mom2curlygirlsmom2curlygirls member
    I'm so sorry you are stressing and having anxiety. I can not imagine what you are going through but I so admire all of you on bed rest. It puts the little things in perspective for me!
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