I hate my sister.

mandiek72512 · July 2013

She is a biiitch. Short back story.
My sisters baby daddy is a tool. My sister doesnt allow me niece to see him. Well, 3 years ago, she claims my mom took her to go see her dad, which is a complete made up story in my sisters mind. It just didnt happen. Its been 3 years since my sister has spoken to my mom. She also doesnt allow J (my niece) to see my mom either.
Tomorrow is my babys birthday party and of course my mom will be there. My sister has known this for months. Well, she text me today and went on that she doesnt want my mom and J to talk to each other and to relay the message to mom. I told her Im not her mediator and if she has something to tell mom, she needs to tell her. She said that she has thought about it and will not be at the party and neither will J.
I absolutely hate her for doing this. She isnt punishing anyone but these babies and its not fair. Im hurt, angry and sad. Ive kept my mouth shut but its hard. I really want to tell her off but its not worth the chance of never seeing J again. She is so immature and just wrong for using J against everyone.
I just needed to vent really. Im literally sitting on the porch... crying. Im pitiful and pathetic. Uugghhh!!!

reinedecajun · July 2013

It's the same way with my mil and her ex husband (my husbands dad) she won't go anywhere if she knows yea there. It's unfortunate but I'm not compromising anything for their benefit. People like this just need to grow the fuuck up.

mandiek72512 · July 2013

She needs to put her big girl panties on and DEAL WITH IT!!!!

jenikas · July 2013

Ugh. This makes me sad and angry for you. I know there are some valid reasons to cut ties with family, but this just seems like she's being irrational.

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