It's interesting to hear from the male point of view and I agree on his comments... but I also can't help but think of the DDs who come here asking for advice and then whine when everyone tells them to google it or they get a response they don't like.
I'd smack someone if they ever said any of those comments the author mentioned.
Re: Why Are Women Mean to Their Pregnant Peers?
I will admit, reading that article, The Grinch song was playing in my head...
BFP #1 4/10/12 D&C 6/5/12@ 12.5wks EDD 12/17/12
BFP #2 9/10/12 CP 9/19/12@ 5.5wks EDD 5/21/13
BFP# 3 12/3/12...Lukas James born 8/15/13
BFP# 4 8/4/14 EDD 4/13/15
:-\" Boredom? or hormones? hilarity?
this!! wow, I completely skipped my mom too. My mom has been especially awful as well. But she's more like a crazy person than anything else.
Hmm. I would have said, "Why? Are you allergic to cuteness or awesomeness?"
I wish my mind was quick with comebacks! That would've been perfect. It was the first time I felt that motherly need to protect my LO. That kind of rude attitude is not welcome around my Baby girl. So she'll never have to worry about even getting the privilege to see her!
Women can be nasty, but men aren't innocent either.
Men, I think, just tend to be oblivious. There is this bank teller around my age that keeps comparing my pregnancy to his wife's - she gave birth last year. Last time I was in line, he asked me in front of everyone if I was planning to go without the epidural. Then he exclaimed that his wife was only in labor for 6 hours and she said that "labor wasn't as hard as everyone says it is".
I wanted to ask him for his wife's phone number for confirmation.
I hope she comes back just so I can say this!
The rudest thing someone has said to me was "Well I don't see a ring on your finger!!! Isn't MARRIAGE supposed to come before a BABY!!"
I barely know this man, we happen to work in the same building for different companies. I politely told him "Thankfully times have changed". And walked away. It wouldn't have been so pretty if I wasn't at work.
I do think that most people go out of their way to be nice to pregnant women, but there's always the occassional contrarian that has to smugly chime in with an assinine comment.
Thank you, sir.