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would you be upset?

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At DC today A didn't eat for 6 hours. Then the DC employee that is there daily states I think we need to feed him more he still appears hungry when he's done. I have no problem feeding him more but if he can sleep for 6 straight hours after a feeding I don't see the logic in her statement. The currently eats 4ozs. BM every 3 4 hours. I am so angry they let him sleep so long. He also has been acting a bit differently lately such as not sleeping in his crib, more BM's thoughout the day, color is good...drooling a lot and chewing everything. I am thinking growth spurt or teething. What do you think? Am I overreacting? 14 weeks for those on mobile
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  • RoseHQ12RoseHQ12 member
    If LO is on a 3/4 hour schedule then I would certainly want DC to follow the schedule accordingly.  I am sure LO was more hungry after a being asleep for 6 hours! that in turn will change his sleeping habits for you.  I would talk with them about following your schedule.  GL!
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member
    Well, since I don't let the babies sleep that long during the day I would be upset. I would be very clear with them about your expectations for your DS's schedule and how long he should go between feedings during the day.
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  • TJ1979TJ1979 member
    I would be annoyed for sure. I would let the DC be very clear on your expectations. A similar situation happened with us, and I told them to never let her go more than 4 hours without eating unless they called me first. Otherwise wake her to eat. Especially that young!
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  • mcgeevamcgeeva member
    Like OP I would have them follow your schedule. We had a problem once with ds sleeping too l long and I told them two naps were fine as long as they didn't except this amount of hours. And food I upped some but I still made them stick to every 3-4 hour feedings as well. When they change it up it messes with the schedule at home as well.

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  • mcgeevamcgeeva member
    In other words..not their place to make the call on what they feel like changing with you baby

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  • itsmevkbitsmevkb member

    I've lived by the belief of never wake a sleeping baby so I don't know that I would have been upset.  Babies go through so many weird little quirky days or weeks - like you said, when they are having a growth spurt, or teething, or even just learning something new, and during those times they are sleeping more because they need to.

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  • mcgeevamcgeeva member
    itsmevkb said:

    I've lived by the belief of never wake a sleeping baby so I don't know that I would have been upset.  Babies go through so many weird little quirky days or weeks - like you said, when they are having a growth spurt, or teething, or even just learning something new, and during those times they are sleeping more because they need to.

    I do agree they go through changes or sleep more when sick. I am just talking about daily schedule. I am a stickler for sticking to them.

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    6/17/13 - Ovidrel, Follistim, Prometrium ~ IUI #1 7/2 = BFP! March 17th our St. Pattys day baby arrived

    10/29/17 - Started process for IVF, got pregnant & miscarried a 2nd time since summer. 2/22 started stims - Menopur, Gonal F, Cetrotide - retrieval 3/6 - , PIO, estrace 3xday - FET 4/18 = Beta 1: 616; Beta 2: 1342 = BFP 

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