I've been lurking here for a while, trying to get all the basics figured out, so I figured I'd finally introduce myself. I'm 27 weeks along with my first baby, a little boy who we are naming Parker. A friend turned me on to cloth diapering and I'm really excited about it. I'm even thinking of trying cloth wipes for when we're at home.
My husband is very supportive, but has hesitations about making it work when both of us go back to work full time. I'll be on mat leave for three months, then unfortunately have to go back.
We're looking for a daycare that is CD friendly, but DH has concerns about the amount of laundry.
How many of you are working moms doing CD'ing? Any tips for us?
Thanks in advance!
Re: Working moms?
Yep, I've worked since LO was 9 weeks old, and we've CD'd since he was 1 day old - so over 2 years now. We used a mix of things at the beginning - prefolds, fitteds, and pockets. But once he got big enough to wear one-size, we've used only pockets, mostly BG 4.0s. His daycare is very CD-friendly, but they do require either pockets or All-In-Ones. We send about 6 diapers per day, he uses about 4 of them. They put them in a wet bag and send it home in his bag. In the infant room, they just put the poopy diapers in the bag and we had to dump when we got home (after he started solids). Now that he's in the bigger room, they change diapers in the bathroom so they dump the poop for us, which has been very nice.
We do diaper laundry 3 days a week. It's very easy laundry, doesn't take very long at all to sort it, unlike the clothing which seems to take forever on the weekends.
Working full-time and cloth diapering is no big deal. It's one load of laundry every other day. I take my pail liner with diapers to the washer, dump it in, then start the load. I return 30 minutes later to add detergent and start the wash cycle. Once they are clean it takes me about 5 minutes to hang the diapers, wet bags, inserts, and pail liner on my drying rack.
Definitely do the cloth wipes. You can just toss them in with your diapers and not have to deal with a separate trash can of poopy disposable wipes.
For daycare we send a zippered wet bag. When we get home I empty it and deal with the poopy diaper if there is one.
CD laundry won't be any more than it currently is.LO will still use generally the same amount of diapers in a day (I say generally becasue the daycare I send DS to changes them every 2 hours regardless of it they need it or not, so you might go through a couple more a day than you do currently). When DS was in still in diapers I sent about 6-8 along with a wetbag every day. Then just bring the wetbag home and rinse them all out. You'll still do laundry every couple days. Although you will need to make sure you have enough daycare-size wetbags. I had 4 to be safe.
I'd recommend finding a daycare first. Then just trial and error. Each daycare is going to be a little different.
I have found sticking with one brand of diaper is easier for them. It's less confusing as to what setting they should use for snaps.
Also, if they haven't used them before, do a diaper change to show them how.
You can also go up to 3 days with your wash. I have a larger stash so that I can wash every 3 days. With the addition of this one, I'll wash every day, but I'll probably wait for two loads to fold and stuff.
I go back to work on Monday, so I don't have actual experience but I can tell you this as when I was looking at day care centers in the area many were not CD friendly unlike where I was working before I moved. I will tell you this that you can google your states licensing requirements regarding CDing and I found a site that lists all the states info and I don't believe there are any states that do not allow it. My state requires a doctor note, but before I became educated about it when I asked I was told it was against licensing, so many places are not educated about it. If you have one that you really like and seems to not want to budge I would suggest showing them what it's all about and like another poster said, when the baby starts solids, just have them put the poopy diaper in the pail and you dump when you get home.
As for the laundry aspect, I wash every three days and just stuff while watching TV. I'm actually thinking of changing over to grovia hybrids which will be even easier to deal with.
If you want to cloth, I think it's completely manageable!
I spray diapers from her daycare wetbag when I get home, and unstuff them to put in the wetbag in her room then restock her diaper bag for the next day. I've never once thought of it as hard, it's just part of the routine now.