Hormones???

HBrashear · July 2013

Ok, so the father of my baby and I aren't married. We've talked about it, but he's always back and forth on marriage. One min he Doesn't think that he needs a piece of paper to prove his love to me and to show commitment, and the next he makes a comment like 'when we get married ...' Or 'at our wedding ...' So I don't push the issue. He called me today and asked me to get in his desk drawer to look for something. I found a pic of him ad an old GF along with a card ... I didn't read the whole thing cuz I was on the phone with him, and then the few words I did skim across hurt my feelings. But I pulled it back out, It said 'All I want is to love you for the rest of my life ... To wake up every morning with you by my side, knowing that no matter what happens ill be able to come home to your loving arms ...." There's more, but I'm sure you all get the picture. There wasn't a signature. I cant help but cry. I hurt because that's how I feel about him, and he's so back and forth about marriage, but he's obviously felt this way towards another woman. People have made comments to me like 'you should see the way he looks at you, he loves you.' Or he will call himself 'daddy' referring to my 4 yr old daughter who's bio father signed his rights over ... He makes comments about us growing old together, raising our children ... Stuff like that ... But I still can't help but to cry and feel heart broken.
Am I over reacting? Could I be feeling like this because of the pregnancy hormones, or do I have a reason to feel like this?
So emotional

Noethola · July 2013

Is it his hand writing? Cause I would ask him about it, but thats just me.

I found a small lost note after DH and I got married. I found it, because he never cleaned out the bathroom vanity, while Im a thorough cleaner. It was from a girl he had dated YEARS before us, and he honestly had no memory of the note.

He then proceeded to hold me tight and remind me that he had married ME not her. He had chosen to be with me.

Yes, pregnancy adds hormones. Its good to just get things out in the open.

HBrashear · July 2013

No it wasn't in his handwriting. It was a card you'd but at Walmart.

Tjohnson781 · July 2013

Noethola:
Is it his hand writing? Cause I would ask him about it, but thats just me.nbsp;I found a small lost note after DH and I got married. I found it, because he never cleaned out the bathroom vanity, while Im a thorough cleaner. It was from a girl he had dated YEARS before us, and he honestly had no memory of the note.nbsp;He then proceeded to hold me tight and remind me that he had married ME not her. He had chosen to be with me. Yes, pregnancy adds hormones. Its good to just get things out in the open.

Good advice.