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ex quit his job

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So now that means child support wont be paid anymore. Not that he paid the full 200 a month anyway...I was lucky if I got 20 a week. Now it just means i wont get any support. Hell also probably stay unemployed for the rest of the year and probably into next year as well. Just makes me angry that I do all the financial and emotional and well.. all the support for DS then he comes in and acts like worlds best. Then he goes and pouts to whomever will listen about how much child support he pays.

On anouthwr note ex and his girlfriend are on a kick of trying to force me to do activities with them. They put DS in the middle and make him ask me and then I have to say its not a good idea for us all to get together. If it were just ex maybe but I can not be around exs bat shii crazy girlfriend...the one who ran over to my car at pickup one day flipping me off with both hands and yelling fck off over and over. The girlfriend who went to DS graduation and went to the principal and teacher running her mouth about how im such a terrible aweful mom and the girlfriendwho has sent messages telling me she hates my guts...yeah thats a great Iidea for us all to get together...plus how are they going to pay for these activities since ex quit hisjob...ugh

Sorry I may DD I just needed to vent
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  • twister22twister22 member
    I'm so sorry, that sucks. Instead of telling DS it's not a good idea for you all to hang out together, I'd tell him you'd love to, but you can't because you'll be doing x. I don't think it's a good idea to be telling him the grown ups can't get along - let grown up problems be grown up problems.
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  • Mysterious_wifeMysterious_wife member
    I don't think you can get UI, if you quit. Here's to hoping he will be forced to get a job!
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  • KTdiditKTdidit member

    Oh that sucks. But I agree with twister - let the issue oif the adults not getting along stay an adult problem. Your DS doesn't need to know that. I would maybe tell him that this is his time to spend with BD and he should go have fun. Make plans so you have an out.

    What a moron to think that would be a good idea. There's no way I would ever think its possible to do anything with BD. There wouls be so much tension you'd need a chainsaw to get through it.

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  • WahooWahoo member

    Instead of saying "that's not a good idea" to DS, tell DS that if Daddy wants to ask you a question he has to ask you himself.  Then STICK TO THIS and refuse to answer (or ask) any questions through DS - even if it is more convenient.  Treat any question that ex asks through DS as never asked at all. (After one time telling ex that you will not answer any question posed through DS and he needs to ask you directly).

    image "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self esteem, first make sure you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.
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