Saturday sex confession

jessalynn521 · July 2013

So last night we tried, very unsuccessfully to DTD when DH got off of work. It really got me upset because I initiated but then could not be comfortable to save me. So my confession:

My history on the computer for today includes fb, tb, googling hours for the bmv on saturdays, and my googling comfortable 3rd trimester sex positions, which was extremely un-helpful. I am super bummed right now, because I have all of this tension I just want gone, and can't get comfortable to do it.

DAMMIT.

lady_tytah · July 2013

Doggie style isn't comfortable for you? Also reverse cowgirl or spooning are good as well.

loramag48 · July 2013

I remember third tri all I was comfortable with was the spooning position... and that really wasn't that much fun.

Tula214 · July 2013

All of third tri we did two positions [in almost a daily basis]... cowgirl, and spooning. Spooning was awesome.

BluepointToasted · July 2013

I was on top sitting straight up almost the whole third tri....that or spooning, which kind of sucks.

jessalynn521 · July 2013

We tried with me on top but because this baby believes that my sciatic nerve is the most awesome place everrrr every time I tried to move for it it sent a shooting pain through my back and down my leg. I have never been a huge fan of spooning because of the angle, but maybe I will just get over it and try that. It is the only "recommended position" I found that we didn't try. I feel like I am never going to have sex again with the rest of pregnancy and then the 6ww after delivery. ugh.

loramag48 · July 2013

here is my sex confession... I typically hate cowgirl style. I claim is because my legs get tired.. but in truth I feel awkward and now to make things worse I hate my newly saggy deflated boobs.

jessalynn521 · July 2013

loramag48:
here is my sex confession... I typically hate cowgirl style. I claim is because my legs get tired.. but in truth I feel awkward and now to make things worse I hate my newly saggy deflated boobs.

It really is hard to get used to a completely "new" body once baby is there. I went from being someone who could have sex in a lit room to like, pitch black. My biggest thing was my stretch marks... like, everywhere.

JayandEmm · July 2013

Sex was completely uncomfortable in all positions in 3rd tri. That's why we never did it. Lol.

My sex confession: I miss having my smart phone because I can't look at porn [the one night a week when H isn't home].

jillybean7582 · July 2013

jessalynn521:
the most awesome place everrrr

I clearly watch too much Disney Jr. I now have the Henry Huggle Monster song stuck in my head.

But that does suck. I don't miss the last 4ish weeks of being pregnant. Could't get comfortable to save my life doing anything.

twoitalians · July 2013

It hurt too much from being too sensitive to have sex when I was pregnant. So we tried to dtd 3 times my whole pregnancy, the last time was maybe a week or two into my second tri. Lucky you for wanting to do it in the third tri. I'm sorry you can't get comfortable enough for it though. Seriously try spooning. It's actually one of the most intimate feeling positions IMO, I just wish DH would figure out how not to make it feel awkward.

rp-chicago-mom · July 2013

What about you hanging off the bed and him kneeling? That was very comfortable for me.

jodegaard · July 2013

Sharona1700:
Baker_Bride:
What about you hanging off the bed and him kneeling? That was very comfortable for me.
I have NO idea how this is done. Stick figures, please! 

Seriously, I need a diagram for comprehension sake.

CaliVal · July 2013

I think she means a modified missionary where her legs are off the side of the bed and he is kneeling... But you'd have to have a really low bed

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